"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just changed my friendship forever...

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a guy up above made a good comment, in that women will typically take it to that level if they feel COMFORTABLE doing so.

If she had no prior interest in having you kiss her, it won't be able to happen quick enough. Unless some part of her wants you to kiss her, you're gonna have to build up that want.

I don't have a great amount of experience under my belt, but with the little experience that I do have. If you set the right tone, they'll be receptive to it.

and this guy does deserve commendation for having the ballz to get up and take action.

As for why she was thinking he was gonna say he was gay, it might have to do with this. That she doesn't want to have him get all stupid and weird by having feelings or wanting a relationship that SHE doesn't want. So being gay would be fine for her because then there wouldn't be risk that he would start getting weird around her and ruin the friendship.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ha she called me 5 mins before work started today. she knows i work on fridays at a certain time but when she called she was like what are you up to? i said i was going to work and she was like "oh i totally forgot about you having to work. I just woke up from my nap" she wanted to know if i wanted to go to dinner with her and some friends. now whether or not this is true i find it pretty damn funny at the timing.

then about 10 mins ago her friend calls me from her phone and leaves me a voice message they are both drunk i am sure of that.
 
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