"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I just cant make a conversation

cablecow15

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ok where i live thres this area where i see hott gils my age all the time so many of them. I do the usual i give them a smile some times they look scared and some times they give me a smirk back lol . But i dont have any clue on how to go up to a random girl im the music store there or any where else and just start a conversation does any one here have any good ways to spark a coneresation out of nuthingness? any help appreciated
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EdHunter

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Go Directly to the DJ Bible. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.
 

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if you can't think of anything to say just ask open end questions and nod like you care,
if she talks bout clothes (refer to favorite brands, clothing capital of the world ), feed off what she says and go from there
Just relax, u haven't seen her before, so u are interested in what she likes and how can you bed her ( don't make that obvious unless she does)

YOU CAN DO IT!!
 

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pretend everyone is your friend. For some reason my mom has the odd ability to make someone seem like they're their best friend after 5 minutes of even talking to them on the phone
 

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eko said:
pretend everyone is your friend. For some reason my mom has the odd ability to make someone seem like they're their best friend after 5 minutes of even talking to them on the phone
Yea my dad does that too. Im not too good at it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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