"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just cant make a conversation

cablecow15

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ok where i live thres this area where i see hott gils my age all the time so many of them. I do the usual i give them a smile some times they look scared and some times they give me a smirk back lol . But i dont have any clue on how to go up to a random girl im the music store there or any where else and just start a conversation does any one here have any good ways to spark a coneresation out of nuthingness? any help appreciated
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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EdHunter

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Go Directly to the DJ Bible. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.
 

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if you can't think of anything to say just ask open end questions and nod like you care,
if she talks bout clothes (refer to favorite brands, clothing capital of the world ), feed off what she says and go from there
Just relax, u haven't seen her before, so u are interested in what she likes and how can you bed her ( don't make that obvious unless she does)

YOU CAN DO IT!!
 

eko

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pretend everyone is your friend. For some reason my mom has the odd ability to make someone seem like they're their best friend after 5 minutes of even talking to them on the phone
 

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eko said:
pretend everyone is your friend. For some reason my mom has the odd ability to make someone seem like they're their best friend after 5 minutes of even talking to them on the phone
Yea my dad does that too. Im not too good at it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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