"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I just cant make a conversation

cablecow15

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ok where i live thres this area where i see hott gils my age all the time so many of them. I do the usual i give them a smile some times they look scared and some times they give me a smirk back lol . But i dont have any clue on how to go up to a random girl im the music store there or any where else and just start a conversation does any one here have any good ways to spark a coneresation out of nuthingness? any help appreciated
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EdHunter

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Go Directly to the DJ Bible. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.
 

PUK

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if you can't think of anything to say just ask open end questions and nod like you care,
if she talks bout clothes (refer to favorite brands, clothing capital of the world ), feed off what she says and go from there
Just relax, u haven't seen her before, so u are interested in what she likes and how can you bed her ( don't make that obvious unless she does)

YOU CAN DO IT!!
 

eko

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pretend everyone is your friend. For some reason my mom has the odd ability to make someone seem like they're their best friend after 5 minutes of even talking to them on the phone
 

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eko said:
pretend everyone is your friend. For some reason my mom has the odd ability to make someone seem like they're their best friend after 5 minutes of even talking to them on the phone
Yea my dad does that too. Im not too good at it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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