"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I just cant make a conversation

cablecow15

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ok where i live thres this area where i see hott gils my age all the time so many of them. I do the usual i give them a smile some times they look scared and some times they give me a smirk back lol . But i dont have any clue on how to go up to a random girl im the music store there or any where else and just start a conversation does any one here have any good ways to spark a coneresation out of nuthingness? any help appreciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go Directly to the DJ Bible. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.
 

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if you can't think of anything to say just ask open end questions and nod like you care,
if she talks bout clothes (refer to favorite brands, clothing capital of the world ), feed off what she says and go from there
Just relax, u haven't seen her before, so u are interested in what she likes and how can you bed her ( don't make that obvious unless she does)

YOU CAN DO IT!!
 

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pretend everyone is your friend. For some reason my mom has the odd ability to make someone seem like they're their best friend after 5 minutes of even talking to them on the phone
 

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eko said:
pretend everyone is your friend. For some reason my mom has the odd ability to make someone seem like they're their best friend after 5 minutes of even talking to them on the phone
Yea my dad does that too. Im not too good at it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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