"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey all, I'm new here, and new to strength training. I was curious if it was possible/sensible to lose weight while gaining strength? Thanks for any help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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if you diet correctly, you'll lose fat as you gain mass/muscle . But you've got to be strict with your diet, try not to cheat, although cheating ONCE a week is exceptable by some. I personally diet 7 days a week, and only cheat if im out on a date or something.
 

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I've been losing weight while ALL my strength numbers have been climbing for 5 months now. Lift heavy, do cardio, high protein to conserve muscle, and don't drop calories too much.
 

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Jamnation said:
Hey all, I'm new here, and new to strength training. I was curious if it was possible/sensible to lose weight while gaining strength? Thanks for any help.
Yes it's possible. Strength training will build muscle, while promoting fat loss. Add to this a good diet & you'll have solid results.

Check this Beginner Strength Training Program if you're new to the sport.
 
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