I heard a Don Juan can...

[Dayum itz jee]

Leave a girl better than he found her? Someone please elaborate?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Where exactly did you hear that?

 

[Dayum itz jee]

somewhere on this forum..

 

[Ace of Flames]

I know what it means. I've done it a few times.

Its about improving her self-esteem. Even when you break up, she'll look back and think "Wow, I was with THAT guy? Maybe I can land another catch like him...".

Maybe you gave her lots of new experiences that broadened her horizons. Maybe you introduced her to new people and she has more friends. Maybe you got her to open up sexually. Who knows?

In any case, a real DJ will always leave a girl better than he found her, as opposed to leaving her worse off.

 

[azanon]

Leave a girl better than he found her? Someone please elaborate?

I agree with that, and i will give my opinion on that.

I see it as a responsibility, of sorts. If we're ultimately wanting to sleep with these beautiful women, and we eventually pull that off, then I think we all have to be mindful of the fact that it does have more of an emotional and lasting impact on them than it does us. For instance, many of them tend to get naturally attached to you when you have sex with them.

So, I just think that you should always be mindful of her emotional state and when the time comes to disappoint her, I think it should be done with as much respect and sensitity as possible.

Obviously this is less of a concern with a ONS as it would be with a more steady FB/FWB. So responsiblity varies depending on the situation.

I'm completely not religious, but i like some versus of the bible: such as do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Azanon

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

somewhere on this forum..

Link?