"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Where exactly did you hear that?
 
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I know what it means. I've done it a few times.

Its about improving her self-esteem. Even when you break up, she'll look back and think "Wow, I was with THAT guy? Maybe I can land another catch like him...".

Maybe you gave her lots of new experiences that broadened her horizons. Maybe you introduced her to new people and she has more friends. Maybe you got her to open up sexually. Who knows?

In any case, a real DJ will always leave a girl better than he found her, as opposed to leaving her worse off.
 
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Leave a girl better than he found her? Someone please elaborate?
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I agree with that, and i will give my opinion on that.

I see it as a responsibility, of sorts. If we're ultimately wanting to sleep with these beautiful women, and we eventually pull that off, then I think we all have to be mindful of the fact that it does have more of an emotional and lasting impact on them than it does us. For instance, many of them tend to get naturally attached to you when you have sex with them.

So, I just think that you should always be mindful of her emotional state and when the time comes to disappoint her, I think it should be done with as much respect and sensitity as possible.

Obviously this is less of a concern with a ONS as it would be with a more steady FB/FWB. So responsiblity varies depending on the situation.

I'm completely not religious, but i like some versus of the bible: such as do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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