“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Where exactly did you hear that?
 

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I know what it means. I've done it a few times.

Its about improving her self-esteem. Even when you break up, she'll look back and think "Wow, I was with THAT guy? Maybe I can land another catch like him...".

Maybe you gave her lots of new experiences that broadened her horizons. Maybe you introduced her to new people and she has more friends. Maybe you got her to open up sexually. Who knows?

In any case, a real DJ will always leave a girl better than he found her, as opposed to leaving her worse off.
 

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Leave a girl better than he found her? Someone please elaborate?
I agree with that, and i will give my opinion on that.

I see it as a responsibility, of sorts. If we're ultimately wanting to sleep with these beautiful women, and we eventually pull that off, then I think we all have to be mindful of the fact that it does have more of an emotional and lasting impact on them than it does us. For instance, many of them tend to get naturally attached to you when you have sex with them.

So, I just think that you should always be mindful of her emotional state and when the time comes to disappoint her, I think it should be done with as much respect and sensitity as possible.

Obviously this is less of a concern with a ONS as it would be with a more steady FB/FWB. So responsiblity varies depending on the situation.

I'm completely not religious, but i like some versus of the bible: such as do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Azanon
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

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