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It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

I haven't masturbated all day and I still can't catch raindrops with chopsticks or mine Bitcoin with my thoughts. Send help.

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And the coup de grace...creating outcomes in your head that mirror your current mindset as a reason to do nothing.

Congrats.
Oh yeah. Death and jail sound pleasant as hell. You're right.

I'm not gonna delude myself into thinking things will go well. I see things for what they are, not how I want to see them.
 

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Spoken like a true victim who is determined to be a passenger in his own life.

Notice how OP takes zero responsibility for his own personal failings and shifts blame to someone else?

Sorry OP. Not interested in the sob story. There are many people who had it way worse than you who have succeeded through their own hard work and perseverance and drive to rise above it all. Like the numerous people who came to the US as immigrants without a dollar in their pocket that didn't speak the language and didn't know anyone and turned themselves into millionaires. How did it happen? Firstly because they believed it could and secondly because they worked their ass off towards making it happen and didn't allow setbacks no matter how big dissuade them from their goals.

Your only drive seems to be to complain about your life and how bad it's been and why it will never change. Well you are right about that. With your attitude and mindset it never will.
Off topic, but the time era you're describing is a different stage of the Empire Life Cycle. We are now in the Decadent era.
 

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I do nofap.

It is 100% not a placebo I can assure you of that with absolute certainty. I can tell you this from my own personal experience, but you can't see the world through my eyes, there are too many instances of female attraction when I have been doing well on nofap.

The term placebo cannot apply to nofap because it causes physiological changes within your body i.e. you accumulate sperm cells. It is my belief that this causes your behaviour to change on an instinctual level.

You start walking with a swagger, your voice gets deeper, you feel overall more motivated to do stuff, you can lift heavier **** in the gym, you also get angrier, etc, etc.

These are all symptoms of an increase in testosterone. So nofap = more testosterone. I have also read multiple accounts of guys who have have had their T-levels read before and after nofap, and it doubles.

Lastly, anyone who is not on nofap is missing a huge trick believe me. It is perhaps the most important key to success in life because at the end of the day if you have no sexual drive because you fap all day, what is the point in leaving your house, stay in doors and waste your life.
 

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NoFap is one of the best things you can do, though sometimes the superpowers are a bit exaggerated. For instance, if you are on 3 months of NoFap, you're not going to be more aggressive on your approaches. There's a phase between about 10-30 days of NoFap where you likely will be, but once NoFap is regular, it's not a thing.

Avoid porn too while doing NoFap.

NoFap is a key to good game.

Getting laid at least semi-regularly will keep NoFap streaks going.
 

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NoFap is one of the best things you can do, though sometimes the superpowers are a bit exaggerated. For instance, if you are on 3 months of NoFap, you're not going to be more aggressive on your approaches. There's a phase between about 10-30 days of NoFap where you likely will be, but once NoFap is regular, it's not a thing.

Avoid porn too while doing NoFap.

NoFap is a key to good game.

Getting laid at least semi-regularly will keep NoFap streaks going.
You're just outing yourself..
 

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If you were my son or a male in my family I’d see to it you got your ass tossed into Boot Camp. You need a serious attitude adjustment.

Your attitude is going to get you into a pile of hurt someday. You’re going to mouth off to the wrong person and it’s not going to end well. I get the piss and vinegar thing, trust me I do, but damn son.

I’d say train wreck, but it’s more like a train wreck pulling boxcars that are full of dumpsters that are all on fire.

You will adjust or eventually you will be adjusted. Mark my words. Good luck.

If I attempted to leverage my confidence and put in more effort, I'd either end up shot or in jail for something trivial af. That's just how it is. I couldn't care less about the damn immigrants.
 

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If you were my son or a male in my family I’d see to it you got your ass tossed into Boot Camp. You need a serious attitude adjustment.

Your attitude is going to get you into a pile of hurt someday. You’re going to mouth off to the wrong person and it’s not going to end well. I get the piss and vinegar thing, trust me I do, but damn son.

I’d say train wreck, but it’s more like a train wreck pulling boxcars that are full of dumpsters that are all on fire.

You will adjust or eventually you will be adjusted. Mark my words. Good luck.
See.. I almost went on a little bit about my boxing/judo training and how I'll reach a point where this "wrong person" of yours doesn't exist save for a few inevitable exceptions.

But at the end of the day you're talking about me being attacked by some retard who didn't like what I said (that needed to be said) because they're not intelligent enough to accept that I'm right.

Should nobody speak facts anymore, huh soldier boy?

Should I have to apologize for simply existing just so one of you honor-culturalists don't get your panties in a bunch?

Not happening.
 

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Ok grasshopper.

Let’s face it : you’re here for attention. Well meaning members of the forum are all trying to nudge you in the right direction but you’re still raging. It’s all good: piss into wind Jackie Chan.

Again your ground game will mean nothing (if you even have any) when it gets to that point. There will always be a bigger, badder meaner predator in the jungle.

I wish you luck, because you’re going to need it.

I for one will let you rant on, I tried to help, and yet you continue raging. At this point you’re a troll.

See.. I almost went on a little bit about my boxing/judo training and how I'll reach a point where this "wrong person" of yours doesn't exist save for a few inevitable exceptions.

But at the end of the day you're talking about me being attacked by some retard who didn't like what I said (that needed to be said) because they're not intelligent enough to accept that I'm right.

Should nobody speak facts anymore, huh soldier boy?

Should I have to apologize for simply existing just so one of you honor-culturalists don't get your panties in a bunch?

Not happening.
 

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Ok grasshopper.

Let’s face it : you’re here for attention. Well meaning members of the forum are all trying to nudge you in the right direction but you’re still raging. It’s all good: piss into wind Jackie Chan.

Again your ground game will mean nothing (if you even have any) when it gets to that point. There will always be a bigger, badder meaner predator in the jungle.

I wish you luck, because you’re going to need it.

I for one will let you rant on, I tried to help, and yet you continue raging. At this point you’re a troll.
What "right direction?"

Having a more optimistic mindset is only good for making yourself feel better. It doesn't change how people react to you, it doesn't change how the legal system or government works, and it sure as hell doesn't change how tribal-thinking ruins everything.

I will not lie to myself or other people about how things really are and if they wanna get mad about that, they better not make it my problem.
 

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What "right direction?"

Having a more optimistic mindset is only good for making yourself feel better. It doesn't change how people react to you, it doesn't change how the legal system or government works, and it sure as hell doesn't change how tribal-thinking ruins everything.

I will not lie to myself or other people about how things really are and if they wanna get mad about that, they better not make it my problem.
Honestly, and I am not trying be funny here, you sound like one of those mass shooters about a year prior to it happening. Get help bro. Seriously. You need to get help
 

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Honestly, and I am not trying be funny here, you sound like one of those mass shooters about a year prior to it happening. Get help bro. Seriously. You need to get help
I do get help. It's called punching/getting punched/throwing/getting thrown.
 

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OP you are 25 years old. you have no experience of life, or wisdom.

This is why Luke skywalker was forged on the fire and it took him 3 films to get the true light saber.

I masturbated to porn only once a day, I didnt even think I was an addict, then one day My erections were not as good or as big, my flaccid was like an acorn, and my erection would collapse if I was making out with a woman, and she didnt constantly excite me.

It was hell I also needed to see a woman take 2 ****s up her pussie to be turned on, If a mediocre woman got undressed infront of me nothing happened. my dopamine receptors were fried.

30 days of no fap + intermittent fasting/No caffeine..... was like a spiritual enlightening, I achieved so much throughout the day, and a woman only had to breathe by me and i wanted to **** her *****, the best feeling goes over your body , like a cool shudder.

also ontop of this my erections returned like granite, he was the biggest Id seen him since 1998. my flaccid was long and veiny

I have nothing but positive comments for any kind of abstaining.
 
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OP needs to listen to @derby1 and on top to everybody else here. At this point of his being insufferable he needs to get a one way ticket into the Amazon forest or Balkan mountains and survive there. It will teach him humility and optimism in no time. Go into a country which language you don't speak, take a backpack, a knife, a dictionary and see how you will fare. If you die, at least you tried and your insufferableness has an end, if you survive you will come out stronger and greater than you imagined. It is only a win-win situation at this point.
 

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OP you are 25 years old. you have no experience of life, or wisdom.

This is why Luke skywalker was forged on the fire and it took him 3 films to get the true light saber.

I masturbated to porn only once a day, I didnt even think I was an addict, then one day My erections were not as good or as big, my flaccid was like an acorn, and my erection would collapse if I was making out with a woman, and she didnt constantly excite me.

It was hell I also needed to see a woman take 2 ****s up her pussie to be turned on, If a mediocre woman got undressed infront of me nothing happened. my dopamine receptors were fried.

30 days of no fap + intermittent fasting/No caffeine..... was like a spiritual enlightening, I achieved so much throughout the day, and a woman only had to breathe by me and i wanted to **** her *****, the best feeling goes over your body , like a cool shudder.

also ontop of this my erections returned like granite, he was the biggest Id seen him since 1998. my flaccid was long and veiny

I have nothing but positive comments for any kind of abstaining.
I'm not reading all that. You're too old to be believing in fairytales. Get a grip.

OP needs to listen to @derby1 and on top to everybody else here. At this point of his being insufferable he needs to get a one way ticket into the Amazon forest or Balkan mountains and survive there. It will teach him humility and optimism in no time. Go into a country which language you don't speak, take a backpack, a knife, a dictionary and see how you will fare. If you die, at least you tried and your insufferableness has an end, if you survive you will come out stronger and greater than you imagined. It is only a win-win situation at this point.
All this because I was a little mean to your worthless asses.

You're proving my point. Life isn't a fantasy world. Magic isn't real. Belief doesn't do ****.
 
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