"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I Have Pecs!!!!!!!

alboh

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After 20 years of skinniness of two months in the gym, I was just taking off my shirt to take a shower and realized I HAVE PECS!!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D OK they're pretty small right now, but pecs are pecs, and they'll only get bigger from here.

Every time I go to the gym these days I leave feeling like a little bit less of a boy and little bit more of a man. Thanks to everyone here for the tips -- I wouldn't have pecs without you. :rolleyes: :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sonick182

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haha good job!

Im a skinny guy too, i remember after like a week or two of really working out, POP! Pecs!!! :D
 

alboh

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Non if they're (were in my case) so small you can see your ribcage thru em.
 

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Haha, cool, dude!

I also have a story I'd like to share.. :)
I've been skinny for 19 years, joined a gym about 3 months ago.. No, 2½..
Anyway, some weeks ago when I came from the shower I saw that there was some guy who was heading my way and he had a clearly visible sixpack! Nothing extreme, but it was there!
Then I realized it was a mirror :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by alboh
After 20 years of skinniness of two months in the gym, I was just taking off my shirt to take a shower and realized I HAVE PECS!!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D OK they're pretty small right now, but pecs are pecs, and they'll only get bigger from here.

Every time I go to the gym these days I leave feeling like a little bit less of a boy and little bit more of a man. Thanks to everyone here for the tips -- I wouldn't have pecs without you. :rolleyes: :D
the same thing happened to me a few months ago :D
 
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