"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I Have Pecs!!!!!!!

alboh

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After 20 years of skinniness of two months in the gym, I was just taking off my shirt to take a shower and realized I HAVE PECS!!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D OK they're pretty small right now, but pecs are pecs, and they'll only get bigger from here.

Every time I go to the gym these days I leave feeling like a little bit less of a boy and little bit more of a man. Thanks to everyone here for the tips -- I wouldn't have pecs without you. :rolleyes: :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sonick182

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haha good job!

Im a skinny guy too, i remember after like a week or two of really working out, POP! Pecs!!! :D
 

alboh

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Non if they're (were in my case) so small you can see your ribcage thru em.
 

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Haha, cool, dude!

I also have a story I'd like to share.. :)
I've been skinny for 19 years, joined a gym about 3 months ago.. No, 2½..
Anyway, some weeks ago when I came from the shower I saw that there was some guy who was heading my way and he had a clearly visible sixpack! Nothing extreme, but it was there!
Then I realized it was a mirror :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by alboh
After 20 years of skinniness of two months in the gym, I was just taking off my shirt to take a shower and realized I HAVE PECS!!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D OK they're pretty small right now, but pecs are pecs, and they'll only get bigger from here.

Every time I go to the gym these days I leave feeling like a little bit less of a boy and little bit more of a man. Thanks to everyone here for the tips -- I wouldn't have pecs without you. :rolleyes: :D
the same thing happened to me a few months ago :D
 
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