"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have ODD

Rint

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I found a reason why its hard for me to get along with people and become a DJ. I have ODD It's Oppositional Defiant Disorder and the symptons are

frequent temper tantrums
excessive arguing with adults
active defiance and refusal to comply with adult requests and rules
deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people
blaming others for his or her mistakes or misbehavior
often being touchy or easily annoyed by others
frequent anger and resentment
mean and hateful talking when upset
seeking revenge

Deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people is probably the reason i cant be a DJ, and i didn't even know it was cause of ODD i thought it was a bad habbit. Can you guys help?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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:whistle: LOL

ODD frequently manifests itself at the onset of male puberty and usually subsides with emotional maturity (unless you end up in prison first).

Also known as DTD (Defiant Teenager Disorder). It does in fact prevent complete transition into DJ-hood, but luckily, most females in your age group wouldn't know the difference!
 

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You're 15 (or so it says in your profile)...don't worry, when I was 15-17, I had all those problems too. I did lots of stupid things. You'll grow out of it.
 

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Wow. My brother is like this, and I didn´t know this disorder existed!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Skilla_Staz

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My sister has this. I have a very mild cases as well. It's gotten better over the years as I've "matured".

"I can't be a DJ" is retarded.

Yes you can. People use "disorders" and "diseases" as excuses for limiting themselves because it's the easiest way out.
I have ADD, but you don't see me sitting there and saying

"I can't concentrate, I can't keep my mind on one thing so it's impossible for me to act calm and smooth and carry on a good conversation, so I can't be a DJ."

Most people don't even know I have it.
 

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Good activities for you

Hey man, I suggest you start taking up meditation, Yoga, Taichi and some martial arts. Taking up these activities not only cultivate the body, but also the mind and spirit.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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In America all your flaws have neat scientific names so you dont feel responsible.

Too lazy to study? ADD

Too antisocial? ODD
 

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MetalFortress said:
I don't think you have ODD. I think you're just odd in general.
Owned :moon:




seriously though, Everyone has a mental disorder, or symptoms of one, if you look hard enough.


Not letting it hold you back is a matter of Willpower.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skilla_Staz said:
My sister has this. I have a very mild cases as well. It's gotten better over the years as I've "matured".

"I can't be a DJ" is retarded.

Yes you can. People use "disorders" and "diseases" as excuses for limiting themselves because it's the easiest way out.
I have ADD, but you don't see me sitting there and saying

"I can't concentrate, I can't keep my mind on one thing so it's impossible for me to act calm and smooth and carry on a good conversation, so I can't be a DJ."

Most people don't even know I have it.
yeah bro, my sisters 15 and she always hittin me and sh1t. and gettin revenge too.
 
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