"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have ODD

Rint

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I found a reason why its hard for me to get along with people and become a DJ. I have ODD It's Oppositional Defiant Disorder and the symptons are

frequent temper tantrums
excessive arguing with adults
active defiance and refusal to comply with adult requests and rules
deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people
blaming others for his or her mistakes or misbehavior
often being touchy or easily annoyed by others
frequent anger and resentment
mean and hateful talking when upset
seeking revenge

Deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people is probably the reason i cant be a DJ, and i didn't even know it was cause of ODD i thought it was a bad habbit. Can you guys help?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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:whistle: LOL

ODD frequently manifests itself at the onset of male puberty and usually subsides with emotional maturity (unless you end up in prison first).

Also known as DTD (Defiant Teenager Disorder). It does in fact prevent complete transition into DJ-hood, but luckily, most females in your age group wouldn't know the difference!
 

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You're 15 (or so it says in your profile)...don't worry, when I was 15-17, I had all those problems too. I did lots of stupid things. You'll grow out of it.
 

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Wow. My brother is like this, and I didn´t know this disorder existed!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My sister has this. I have a very mild cases as well. It's gotten better over the years as I've "matured".

"I can't be a DJ" is retarded.

Yes you can. People use "disorders" and "diseases" as excuses for limiting themselves because it's the easiest way out.
I have ADD, but you don't see me sitting there and saying

"I can't concentrate, I can't keep my mind on one thing so it's impossible for me to act calm and smooth and carry on a good conversation, so I can't be a DJ."

Most people don't even know I have it.
 

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Good activities for you

Hey man, I suggest you start taking up meditation, Yoga, Taichi and some martial arts. Taking up these activities not only cultivate the body, but also the mind and spirit.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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In America all your flaws have neat scientific names so you dont feel responsible.

Too lazy to study? ADD

Too antisocial? ODD
 

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MetalFortress said:
I don't think you have ODD. I think you're just odd in general.
Owned :moon:




seriously though, Everyone has a mental disorder, or symptoms of one, if you look hard enough.


Not letting it hold you back is a matter of Willpower.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skilla_Staz said:
My sister has this. I have a very mild cases as well. It's gotten better over the years as I've "matured".

"I can't be a DJ" is retarded.

Yes you can. People use "disorders" and "diseases" as excuses for limiting themselves because it's the easiest way out.
I have ADD, but you don't see me sitting there and saying

"I can't concentrate, I can't keep my mind on one thing so it's impossible for me to act calm and smooth and carry on a good conversation, so I can't be a DJ."

Most people don't even know I have it.
yeah bro, my sisters 15 and she always hittin me and sh1t. and gettin revenge too.
 
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