"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have ODD

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I found a reason why its hard for me to get along with people and become a DJ. I have ODD It's Oppositional Defiant Disorder and the symptons are

frequent temper tantrums
excessive arguing with adults
active defiance and refusal to comply with adult requests and rules
deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people
blaming others for his or her mistakes or misbehavior
often being touchy or easily annoyed by others
frequent anger and resentment
mean and hateful talking when upset
seeking revenge

Deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people is probably the reason i cant be a DJ, and i didn't even know it was cause of ODD i thought it was a bad habbit. Can you guys help?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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:whistle: LOL

ODD frequently manifests itself at the onset of male puberty and usually subsides with emotional maturity (unless you end up in prison first).

Also known as DTD (Defiant Teenager Disorder). It does in fact prevent complete transition into DJ-hood, but luckily, most females in your age group wouldn't know the difference!
 

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You're 15 (or so it says in your profile)...don't worry, when I was 15-17, I had all those problems too. I did lots of stupid things. You'll grow out of it.
 

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Wow. My brother is like this, and I didn´t know this disorder existed!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skilla_Staz

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My sister has this. I have a very mild cases as well. It's gotten better over the years as I've "matured".

"I can't be a DJ" is retarded.

Yes you can. People use "disorders" and "diseases" as excuses for limiting themselves because it's the easiest way out.
I have ADD, but you don't see me sitting there and saying

"I can't concentrate, I can't keep my mind on one thing so it's impossible for me to act calm and smooth and carry on a good conversation, so I can't be a DJ."

Most people don't even know I have it.
 

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Good activities for you

Hey man, I suggest you start taking up meditation, Yoga, Taichi and some martial arts. Taking up these activities not only cultivate the body, but also the mind and spirit.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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In America all your flaws have neat scientific names so you dont feel responsible.

Too lazy to study? ADD

Too antisocial? ODD
 

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MetalFortress said:
I don't think you have ODD. I think you're just odd in general.
Owned :moon:




seriously though, Everyone has a mental disorder, or symptoms of one, if you look hard enough.


Not letting it hold you back is a matter of Willpower.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Skilla_Staz said:
My sister has this. I have a very mild cases as well. It's gotten better over the years as I've "matured".

"I can't be a DJ" is retarded.

Yes you can. People use "disorders" and "diseases" as excuses for limiting themselves because it's the easiest way out.
I have ADD, but you don't see me sitting there and saying

"I can't concentrate, I can't keep my mind on one thing so it's impossible for me to act calm and smooth and carry on a good conversation, so I can't be a DJ."

Most people don't even know I have it.
yeah bro, my sisters 15 and she always hittin me and sh1t. and gettin revenge too.
 
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