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Don Juan
I saw that daancing thread but none of those links really help me. How do I feel the music and move to it? I look like a jack ass when I see my self do it? What the hell do i move? Lol Where do I start?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have no idea how to dance at all
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Belive me that is exactly how I felt a few years back.
My friends even laughed at my dancing skills.
Then I started training Thai Boxing. And it really helped me get my body more in shape, and I could strech it a lot more.
After some 2- 3 months, I even got a few compliments from girls in the lines of "where did you learn to dance like that
?"
So I suggest you sing up for basketball, football, martial arts training, or anything that will strech your body.
When I am dancing I imagine myself having a sparing, just holding my kicks and punches and it actually looks good.
And there is pratcise ofcourse. The only way you can feel good abuth your dancing is if you have done it before.
So if you are ashaimed of your skills go somewhere where you don't know anybody and just dance to the beat, move every part of your body, practise in front of a mirror, see what looks good.
Well this worked for me, I see no reason why not try it.
My friends even laughed at my dancing skills.
Then I started training Thai Boxing. And it really helped me get my body more in shape, and I could strech it a lot more.
After some 2- 3 months, I even got a few compliments from girls in the lines of "where did you learn to dance like that
?"So I suggest you sing up for basketball, football, martial arts training, or anything that will strech your body.
When I am dancing I imagine myself having a sparing, just holding my kicks and punches and it actually looks good.
And there is pratcise ofcourse. The only way you can feel good abuth your dancing is if you have done it before.
So if you are ashaimed of your skills go somewhere where you don't know anybody and just dance to the beat, move every part of your body, practise in front of a mirror, see what looks good.
Well this worked for me, I see no reason why not try it.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
go to a few dance classes and clubs before hours because they usually offer dance lessons for salsa and such(or so I heard).
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Don Juan
Ok thanks. Im taking up capoeira
put yourself in a dancing situation and ask a real hottie to help ya out. you'd probably be surprised how effective this is. me and my buddy wound up getting help from a couple of hotties at a school stomp once, now they're more than just those really hot girls we see in the hall, they go out of their way to greet us and everything
you'd probably be surprised how effective this is. me and my buddy wound up getting help from a couple of hotties at a school stomp once, now they're more than just those really hot girls we see in the hall, they go out of their way to greet us and everything “The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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i totally agree with the hot babe teachin u to dance thing..i almost got my ex to teach me to dance when we were together..but her mom had this rule about always having a friend go..n none of her friends ever wanted to go with when we wanted to dance
Supero Masculus
Don Juan
I agree with the, "Hot Girl" method. One of my close friend's cousin, really hot girl, wants to teach me how to dance but i'm gonna try to "schedule" and "appiontment" with my hot neighbor so she can teach me first. Two dance lessons wouldn't do me any harm.