This Times For Real
Don Juan
I saw that daancing thread but none of those links really help me. How do I feel the music and move to it? I look like a jack ass when I see my self do it? What the hell do i move? Lol Where do I start?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I have no idea how to dance at all
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Belive me that is exactly how I felt a few years back.
My friends even laughed at my dancing skills.
Then I started training Thai Boxing. And it really helped me get my body more in shape, and I could strech it a lot more.
After some 2- 3 months, I even got a few compliments from girls in the lines of "where did you learn to dance like that
?"
So I suggest you sing up for basketball, football, martial arts training, or anything that will strech your body.
When I am dancing I imagine myself having a sparing, just holding my kicks and punches and it actually looks good.
And there is pratcise ofcourse. The only way you can feel good abuth your dancing is if you have done it before.
So if you are ashaimed of your skills go somewhere where you don't know anybody and just dance to the beat, move every part of your body, practise in front of a mirror, see what looks good.
Well this worked for me, I see no reason why not try it.
My friends even laughed at my dancing skills.
Then I started training Thai Boxing. And it really helped me get my body more in shape, and I could strech it a lot more.
After some 2- 3 months, I even got a few compliments from girls in the lines of "where did you learn to dance like that
?"So I suggest you sing up for basketball, football, martial arts training, or anything that will strech your body.
When I am dancing I imagine myself having a sparing, just holding my kicks and punches and it actually looks good.
And there is pratcise ofcourse. The only way you can feel good abuth your dancing is if you have done it before.
So if you are ashaimed of your skills go somewhere where you don't know anybody and just dance to the beat, move every part of your body, practise in front of a mirror, see what looks good.
Well this worked for me, I see no reason why not try it.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
go to a few dance classes and clubs before hours because they usually offer dance lessons for salsa and such(or so I heard).
This Times For Real
Don Juan
Ok thanks. Im taking up capoeira
put yourself in a dancing situation and ask a real hottie to help ya out. you'd probably be surprised how effective this is. me and my buddy wound up getting help from a couple of hotties at a school stomp once, now they're more than just those really hot girls we see in the hall, they go out of their way to greet us and everything
you'd probably be surprised how effective this is. me and my buddy wound up getting help from a couple of hotties at a school stomp once, now they're more than just those really hot girls we see in the hall, they go out of their way to greet us and everything "I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Try a Dance Studio
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i totally agree with the hot babe teachin u to dance thing..i almost got my ex to teach me to dance when we were together..but her mom had this rule about always having a friend go..n none of her friends ever wanted to go with when we wanted to dance
Supero Masculus
Don Juan
I agree with the, "Hot Girl" method. One of my close friend's cousin, really hot girl, wants to teach me how to dance but i'm gonna try to "schedule" and "appiontment" with my hot neighbor so she can teach me first. Two dance lessons wouldn't do me any harm.