"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have no clue where to begin with Inner Game.

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Besides taking up new hobbies, what can I do to improve? I was out yesterday and was able to make jokes or say something to few girls when I was out and got them smiling. When I go online, I have a bit of a struggle seeing ANY girl and not being able to get a conversation going or have something to say to get them to message back. I am trying to go beyond the mass messaging to I can get different results, any advice on how I can work on this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Also, if there is anything I need to watch, I want to watch the best things that will help me improve my game and not just watch a bunch of crap. What is the best thing to watch to improve?
 
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Something like that won't come over night. You have to detach from caring about results and become unflappable. You have to have confidence in yourself, and it has to be real. I go from having lots of inner game to questioning myself or feeling unconfident in lots of areas, its an on going process. You have to realize that you can change perception of yourself, its very hard and takes work but making positive steps and pushing yourself is the answer.
 
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Shootin4Dreams said:
What can I do to seem more of having text game I barely have any?
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Text game should be limited at arranging dates and nothing more. Men act and women talk. If you want to be friends with a woman then talk with her, if you want to have a woman then do things with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Obviously they have to know you somewhat. They arent just gonnag) go have drinks with you if your just a random guy?
 
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