"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have no clue where to begin with Inner Game.

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Besides taking up new hobbies, what can I do to improve? I was out yesterday and was able to make jokes or say something to few girls when I was out and got them smiling. When I go online, I have a bit of a struggle seeing ANY girl and not being able to get a conversation going or have something to say to get them to message back. I am trying to go beyond the mass messaging to I can get different results, any advice on how I can work on this?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Also, if there is anything I need to watch, I want to watch the best things that will help me improve my game and not just watch a bunch of crap. What is the best thing to watch to improve?
 

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Something like that won't come over night. You have to detach from caring about results and become unflappable. You have to have confidence in yourself, and it has to be real. I go from having lots of inner game to questioning myself or feeling unconfident in lots of areas, its an on going process. You have to realize that you can change perception of yourself, its very hard and takes work but making positive steps and pushing yourself is the answer.
 

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Shootin4Dreams said:
What can I do to seem more of having text game I barely have any?
Text game should be limited at arranging dates and nothing more. Men act and women talk. If you want to be friends with a woman then talk with her, if you want to have a woman then do things with her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Obviously they have to know you somewhat. They arent just gonnag) go have drinks with you if your just a random guy?
 
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