Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I have no clue where to begin with Inner Game.

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Besides taking up new hobbies, what can I do to improve? I was out yesterday and was able to make jokes or say something to few girls when I was out and got them smiling. When I go online, I have a bit of a struggle seeing ANY girl and not being able to get a conversation going or have something to say to get them to message back. I am trying to go beyond the mass messaging to I can get different results, any advice on how I can work on this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Also, if there is anything I need to watch, I want to watch the best things that will help me improve my game and not just watch a bunch of crap. What is the best thing to watch to improve?
 
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Something like that won't come over night. You have to detach from caring about results and become unflappable. You have to have confidence in yourself, and it has to be real. I go from having lots of inner game to questioning myself or feeling unconfident in lots of areas, its an on going process. You have to realize that you can change perception of yourself, its very hard and takes work but making positive steps and pushing yourself is the answer.
 
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Shootin4Dreams said:
What can I do to seem more of having text game I barely have any?
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Text game should be limited at arranging dates and nothing more. Men act and women talk. If you want to be friends with a woman then talk with her, if you want to have a woman then do things with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Obviously they have to know you somewhat. They arent just gonnag) go have drinks with you if your just a random guy?
 
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