"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have no clue where to begin with Inner Game.

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Besides taking up new hobbies, what can I do to improve? I was out yesterday and was able to make jokes or say something to few girls when I was out and got them smiling. When I go online, I have a bit of a struggle seeing ANY girl and not being able to get a conversation going or have something to say to get them to message back. I am trying to go beyond the mass messaging to I can get different results, any advice on how I can work on this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Also, if there is anything I need to watch, I want to watch the best things that will help me improve my game and not just watch a bunch of crap. What is the best thing to watch to improve?
 
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Something like that won't come over night. You have to detach from caring about results and become unflappable. You have to have confidence in yourself, and it has to be real. I go from having lots of inner game to questioning myself or feeling unconfident in lots of areas, its an on going process. You have to realize that you can change perception of yourself, its very hard and takes work but making positive steps and pushing yourself is the answer.
 
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Shootin4Dreams said:
What can I do to seem more of having text game I barely have any?
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Text game should be limited at arranging dates and nothing more. Men act and women talk. If you want to be friends with a woman then talk with her, if you want to have a woman then do things with her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Obviously they have to know you somewhat. They arent just gonnag) go have drinks with you if your just a random guy?
 
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