"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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I have no car

Ark Dragon

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Ok, I don’t have my license….yeah I’m 20 and I don’t have it because insurance is really high where I live. Its not unusual around here and a lot of my friends don’t have theirs either. So anyway this girl who, I’ve known for years, and I decided to hang out the other day. I called the day before, got movie times…did the usually confident “lets go see this” kinda thing…. she was really happy at first until I said I didn’t drive. I had told her this before but I guess she assumed I had gotten it already. Turns out she doesn’t have hers either and we just kinda both agreed to do it sometime in the future…what I want to know is it cool if we can both get our parents to drop us off somewhere? Or if I should just say screw it and wait till I get to MSU this fall where I don’t need a car. And btw….driving and getting a car are out of the question for a few months.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jakethasnake

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Where do you live? If you live in a major city then public trasnportation should be a hop and a skip away. If you live in the suburbs, maybe you can call a cab company and swing by her house in it to pick you up. Just tell her to be outside and wait for you to swing by in a cab. Then arrange for the driver to come back at a certain time (i.e. at the end of the movie/date/activity) to pick you up. Then drop her off at her place, and then have the cabbie drive you home. If she's a good persona, she should be cool about it. It might also cost you a few more bucks, but that's the small price you pay for not having a car. ;)
 

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I live in the woods basically....our town has a population of like 20k people. We have no real cabs here and she lives like 10 miles away. I think i'm screwed?
 

DJ Alejandro

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so do i. so what?:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJUofS

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Public Transportation. Anywhere I have ever been in has some sort of public transportation. Try to find a bus or something.
 
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