"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have no car

Ark Dragon

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Ok, I don’t have my license….yeah I’m 20 and I don’t have it because insurance is really high where I live. Its not unusual around here and a lot of my friends don’t have theirs either. So anyway this girl who, I’ve known for years, and I decided to hang out the other day. I called the day before, got movie times…did the usually confident “lets go see this” kinda thing…. she was really happy at first until I said I didn’t drive. I had told her this before but I guess she assumed I had gotten it already. Turns out she doesn’t have hers either and we just kinda both agreed to do it sometime in the future…what I want to know is it cool if we can both get our parents to drop us off somewhere? Or if I should just say screw it and wait till I get to MSU this fall where I don’t need a car. And btw….driving and getting a car are out of the question for a few months.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jakethasnake

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Where do you live? If you live in a major city then public trasnportation should be a hop and a skip away. If you live in the suburbs, maybe you can call a cab company and swing by her house in it to pick you up. Just tell her to be outside and wait for you to swing by in a cab. Then arrange for the driver to come back at a certain time (i.e. at the end of the movie/date/activity) to pick you up. Then drop her off at her place, and then have the cabbie drive you home. If she's a good persona, she should be cool about it. It might also cost you a few more bucks, but that's the small price you pay for not having a car. ;)
 

Ark Dragon

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I live in the woods basically....our town has a population of like 20k people. We have no real cabs here and she lives like 10 miles away. I think i'm screwed?
 

DJ Alejandro

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so do i. so what?:rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJUofS

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Public Transportation. Anywhere I have ever been in has some sort of public transportation. Try to find a bus or something.
 
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