"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have come across a female "nice guy"

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I matched a girl on tinder and talked to her for a bit then went over and banged

In her pics she was an 8, IRL a 6.5 but I was horny so I went there, I made the mistake of sleeping over as she lived close to my workplace.

Had no interest in continuing anything so did the whole "i like being single now" routine

Of course she agreed and was like yeah totally me too.

Since then I've been getting message bombed to oblivion about when we can meet next etc

It's ****ing ANNOYING guys.

See as dudes we don't often see this side of things, but the neediness, the Desperation pours out of the phone screen and it's really deeply unpleasant.

It struck me that girls go through this a LOT and we as dudes think they are cruel or callous because they don't react well to it.

Trust me you don't want to be that guy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why not sleep over? I will always sleep over if it's offered, secure a morning bang then dip.

Anyway, I regularly get the desperate "let's meet" msgs, after a few days or a week they either ghost themselves or just stop. These girls are easily reigned back in with a "sorry mad busy with work lately" - I actually got that line from this forum so thanks whoever suggested it.
 
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I just successfully dealt with one recently. All I did was ignore her texts, texting back 24-48 hours later about how busy I am at work until she got the hint. It took about 2.5 weeks.
 
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It's annoying specifically because you're not interested. If you were, she would be coming across as high interest and it wouldn't bother you. Or at least not bother you that much. Generally speaking, women can get away with being "nice guys", because being supplicative, loving, and deferential are positive feminine traits.
 
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Yeah that is definitely annoying, now you see why it's such a turn off for women when a guy acts like this lol. Also, keep in mind that if you had high interest in her it probably wouldn't bother you so much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Murkserious said:
Why not sleep over? I will always sleep over if it's offered, secure a morning bang then dip.

Anyway, I regularly get the desperate "let's meet" msgs, after a few days or a week they either ghost themselves or just stop. These girls are easily reigned back in with a "sorry mad busy with work lately" - I actually got that line from this forum so thanks whoever suggested it.
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No you never sleep over at a woman's place unless she is your girlfriend...wrong message is being sent.
 
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You engaged in the most intimate act imaginable with another human being and you don’t understand why she’s acting needy towards your disinterest following? What am I missing here?
 
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You engaged in the most intimate act imaginable with another human being and you don’t understand why she’s acting needy towards your disinterest following? What am I missing here?
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It was a tinder root man
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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