“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have been playing the guitar for years and am really good, how specifically can I use this to get more women?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I have a Harmonica and a Pan Flute. Dunno if either are attractive to girls though.

Can you play the piano?
 

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Always have your guitar(s) out. I have mine all hanging on my walls. When you get a girl back to your place, she will probably mention them. Say yes, I really get a lot of gratification out of playing. Pick one up and just do a bit of casual warmup and segue into a song. Watch her melt like butter.

In terms of getting them there in the first place, all you can really do is play gigs and talk to them afterwards or during breaks.

Mastery of anything under the sun is hugely attractive to women. We guitarists have a definite edge when it comes to that as it not only displays mastery, but our area of mastery stirs the emotions.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Serenade your dates
I do this. Have 2-3 pieces you can play for them (I do some Zeppelin songs)

You can also use this as a DHV/bait in the early convo stages and also as plausible deniability when you pull back to your place.
 

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You need to play in a band in front of a crowd. The pay will be sheet, but you wouldn't be doing it for the pay. If you get in front of enough of a crowd, eventually there will be some gals who will be interested - how attractive they will be in the '20s, I have no idea, but with the level of general dispossession of male Sexual Market Value, they might not be so good. :rolleyes: :mad: Regardless, you can use this as a stepping stone, but you'll need to prove your chops to be able to step up, and I think in music that means you either have to sing well, be Eddie-Van-Halen-level virtuoso, or write decent originals. Who knows - maybe nowadays getting super good at playing only accomplishes being the music-form of a GymCel :mad: (maybe it should be called BandCel? :rolleyes:), as I find myself complementing (i.e., as a fellow musician) men that are really, really good at playing, and I don't think many chicks have an understanding of when someone is really good. :rolleyes:

If you're really good at acoustic renditions of pop stuff, you could be a solo artist, which would give you the freedom to seek out gigs where there are more & better chicks around. Regardless, you could record videos of your renditions to post on YouTube & Facebook.

If you find all this to be too heavy lift, here's a song for you - ironically by a guy with incel-tier looks who from his musicianship was able to get a top supermodel:

 
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I'm not disputing any of the main points of MatureDJ's post, it's very good and playing out will def get you girls.

But you know there's a line about masturbating in the song you linked, right? LOL

Singing that song ain't going to wet any panties.

Your sister's gone out, she's on a date
You just sit at home and masturbate
Your phone is gonna ring soon, but you just can't wait
For that call

And you look so polished from your hair down to your toes
Ah but still your fingers gonna pick your nose…

Captain Jack will get you high tonight
And take you to your special island...
 
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