Josh Davidson
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have been playing the guitar for years and am really good, how specifically can I use this to get more women?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Atom Smasher
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Always have your guitar(s) out. I have mine all hanging on my walls. When you get a girl back to your place, she will probably mention them. Say yes, I really get a lot of gratification out of playing. Pick one up and just do a bit of casual warmup and segue into a song. Watch her melt like butter.
In terms of getting them there in the first place, all you can really do is play gigs and talk to them afterwards or during breaks.
Mastery of anything under the sun is hugely attractive to women. We guitarists have a definite edge when it comes to that as it not only displays mastery, but our area of mastery stirs the emotions.
In terms of getting them there in the first place, all you can really do is play gigs and talk to them afterwards or during breaks.
Mastery of anything under the sun is hugely attractive to women. We guitarists have a definite edge when it comes to that as it not only displays mastery, but our area of mastery stirs the emotions.
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Go to open mic, once this is over, and play your tunes. But you better be good or it'll have the opposite effect.
Cheers,
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Josh Davidson
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Awesome! Thanks for all the replies!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Serenade your dates
BillyPilgrim
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I do this. Have 2-3 pieces you can play for them (I do some Zeppelin songs)
You can also use this as a DHV/bait in the early convo stages and also as plausible deniability when you pull back to your place.
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You need to play in a band in front of a crowd. The pay will be sheet, but you wouldn't be doing it for the pay. If you get in front of enough of a crowd, eventually there will be some gals who will be interested - how attractive they will be in the '20s, I have no idea, but with the level of general dispossession of male Sexual Market Value, they might not be so good. 
Regardless, you can use this as a stepping stone, but you'll need to prove your chops to be able to step up, and I think in music that means you either have to sing well, be Eddie-Van-Halen-level virtuoso, or write decent originals. Who knows - maybe nowadays getting super good at playing only accomplishes being the music-form of a GymCel (maybe it should be called BandCel? ), as I find myself complementing (i.e., as a fellow musician) men that are really, really good at playing, and I don't think many chicks have an understanding of when someone is really good.
If you're really good at acoustic renditions of pop stuff, you could be a solo artist, which would give you the freedom to seek out gigs where there are more & better chicks around. Regardless, you could record videos of your renditions to post on YouTube & Facebook.
If you find all this to be too heavy lift, here's a song for you - ironically by a guy with incel-tier looks who from his musicianship was able to get a top supermodel:
Regardless, you can use this as a stepping stone, but you'll need to prove your chops to be able to step up, and I think in music that means you either have to sing well, be Eddie-Van-Halen-level virtuoso, or write decent originals. Who knows - maybe nowadays getting super good at playing only accomplishes being the music-form of a GymCel (maybe it should be called BandCel? ), as I find myself complementing (i.e., as a fellow musician) men that are really, really good at playing, and I don't think many chicks have an understanding of when someone is really good. If you're really good at acoustic renditions of pop stuff, you could be a solo artist, which would give you the freedom to seek out gigs where there are more & better chicks around. Regardless, you could record videos of your renditions to post on YouTube & Facebook.
If you find all this to be too heavy lift, here's a song for you - ironically by a guy with incel-tier looks who from his musicianship was able to get a top supermodel:
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BillyPilgrim
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I'm not disputing any of the main points of MatureDJ's post, it's very good and playing out will def get you girls.
But you know there's a line about masturbating in the song you linked, right? LOL
Singing that song ain't going to wet any panties.
Your sister's gone out, she's on a date
You just sit at home and masturbate
Your phone is gonna ring soon, but you just can't wait
For that call
And you look so polished from your hair down to your toes
Ah but still your fingers gonna pick your nose…
Captain Jack will get you high tonight
And take you to your special island...
But you know there's a line about masturbating in the song you linked, right? LOL
Singing that song ain't going to wet any panties.
Your sister's gone out, she's on a date
You just sit at home and masturbate
Your phone is gonna ring soon, but you just can't wait
For that call
And you look so polished from your hair down to your toes
Ah but still your fingers gonna pick your nose…
Captain Jack will get you high tonight
And take you to your special island...