"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a question!!!

gogoalshop

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Hi all,

I've been checkin' this site for a while but havn't signed up and in my opinion a "Don Juan" is inborn. But with that said I think I'm a pretty fair person and I'm socialable, but it seems like people guys the most hate on me, then there's girls who give me alright looks and what not but never seem to wanna talk to me, I'm not really one of those people ta just barge up on a chick and start mackin'.(unless I'm drunk.) So my question is what's up? I mean I'm pretty quiet and usually am in my own zone writin' lyrics I got ambition, mystery, and all that other player game that's covered on these forms and I'm never nervous when talking to anyone but it just seems like everyones hatin or maybe I'm just trippin'. If ya'll got any opinions on my perdicament holler at me and tell me what's up because I'm clueless.

Thanks ahead!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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evan12

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How are you in look department, less average look people usually treated more poorly from others .
Are you socially awkward or something, or maybe you look too weak?
If men doesn't like to associate with you , it might be you are perceived as low value and men avoid other low value men to be friends with, it could be your lacking of masculinity or you look too depressed or weak.
 

Vice

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Clueless indeed. You might want to consider writing your question or what the thread is about in the title instead of "I have a question!!!" with the actual post being more clear and concise instead of you rambling.
 

backseatjuan

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it seems like people guys the most hate on me, then there's girls who give me alright looks and what not but never seem to wanna talk to me, I'm not really one of those people ta just barge up on a chick and start mackin'
Sounds like you're average with other guys even. If you were spartan god physically you wouldn't care. I think 6 days a week in gym plus perfect diet is in order.
 
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