"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have a question!!!

gogoalshop

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Hi all,

I've been checkin' this site for a while but havn't signed up and in my opinion a "Don Juan" is inborn. But with that said I think I'm a pretty fair person and I'm socialable, but it seems like people guys the most hate on me, then there's girls who give me alright looks and what not but never seem to wanna talk to me, I'm not really one of those people ta just barge up on a chick and start mackin'.(unless I'm drunk.) So my question is what's up? I mean I'm pretty quiet and usually am in my own zone writin' lyrics I got ambition, mystery, and all that other player game that's covered on these forms and I'm never nervous when talking to anyone but it just seems like everyones hatin or maybe I'm just trippin'. If ya'll got any opinions on my perdicament holler at me and tell me what's up because I'm clueless.

Thanks ahead!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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evan12

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How are you in look department, less average look people usually treated more poorly from others .
Are you socially awkward or something, or maybe you look too weak?
If men doesn't like to associate with you , it might be you are perceived as low value and men avoid other low value men to be friends with, it could be your lacking of masculinity or you look too depressed or weak.
 

Vice

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Clueless indeed. You might want to consider writing your question or what the thread is about in the title instead of "I have a question!!!" with the actual post being more clear and concise instead of you rambling.
 

backseatjuan

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it seems like people guys the most hate on me, then there's girls who give me alright looks and what not but never seem to wanna talk to me, I'm not really one of those people ta just barge up on a chick and start mackin'
Sounds like you're average with other guys even. If you were spartan god physically you wouldn't care. I think 6 days a week in gym plus perfect diet is in order.
 
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