"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have a porn addiction

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deathrock said:
I have a porn addiction, and i think it's going to get in my way to becoming a Don Juan. I need help stopping this addiction. Help please.
All guys whack off. That's a fact of life.

The big question is this -

Does your addiction for porn, and whacking off disrupt your life?

If no, then relax, and do whatever it is you do...

If yes, then are really only three ways to deal with it.

1. Stop cold turkey. Delete all you porn from the computer. Throw out the magazines, and DVDs... JUST STOP. Keep yourself occupied doing something else.
Cold turkey method is hard. Takes alot of willpower.

2. Continue to whack off, and watch porn, but start to pace yourself. For the first week, only once a day as opposed to twice a day. Then once every other day. Then once every three days.... you get the idea. Eventually the in between break period will be long enough that you will no longer be whacking off at all.

3. Pace yourself. Once or twice a week is normal. No matter what though, control yourself and only allow yourself that one or two times a week...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There are many websites out there that have set people free and setting people free today through Bible centered teaching and freedom in Christ Jesus.

Two sites that may help is settingcaptivesfree.com and porn-free.org
 
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