"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a porn addiction

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deathrock said:
I have a porn addiction, and i think it's going to get in my way to becoming a Don Juan. I need help stopping this addiction. Help please.
All guys whack off. That's a fact of life.

The big question is this -

Does your addiction for porn, and whacking off disrupt your life?

If no, then relax, and do whatever it is you do...

If yes, then are really only three ways to deal with it.

1. Stop cold turkey. Delete all you porn from the computer. Throw out the magazines, and DVDs... JUST STOP. Keep yourself occupied doing something else.
Cold turkey method is hard. Takes alot of willpower.

2. Continue to whack off, and watch porn, but start to pace yourself. For the first week, only once a day as opposed to twice a day. Then once every other day. Then once every three days.... you get the idea. Eventually the in between break period will be long enough that you will no longer be whacking off at all.

3. Pace yourself. Once or twice a week is normal. No matter what though, control yourself and only allow yourself that one or two times a week...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There are many websites out there that have set people free and setting people free today through Bible centered teaching and freedom in Christ Jesus.

Two sites that may help is settingcaptivesfree.com and porn-free.org
 
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