"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

I have a huge problem. . .

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Bombshell

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2004
Messages
105
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Indiana
Ha before i read the poster name i thought this was a thread about someone needing advice on how to get rid of a gay guy who he was friends with. lol

I dunno if your still looking for advice or if it was totally covered for you, but i would suggest just doing this guy a favor and telling him you just want to be friends and that you want a guy with confidence (yes you do). Hell, you could even be a good friend and refer him to this site if you wanted and tell him it will help him out with the next chick this guy becomes infatuated with. Kissing him will only have the kid bashing his head in at night when he starts recieving mixed signals from you later after you realise your not attracted to him.



Well anyway i noticed your from IL, what part? I live fairly close to IL myself. If you need any other advice or would like a stimulating conversation with someone near your age, my email is [email protected]
 

Spoiled3289

Don Juan
Joined
May 3, 2004
Messages
64
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
Illinois
Bombshell I live by chicago.

The Irish Corleone: I'm not a mod. . . so GET OVER IT! GEEZ!
 

Spoiled3289

Don Juan
Joined
May 3, 2004
Messages
64
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
Illinois
I came here for advice not to pick up guys alright I needed someones help and now I really need it and I know if I post it people will pick on me again so forget it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top