Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I have a hard time nexting women...

jackhamma

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I doing pretty well for myself when I am out at bars.
I am also getting a good amount of meet ups off Tinder and getting the occasional lay.

My problem is I have a hard time nexting a woman. I get puzzy blind and I want to fix this problem.

I know she is no good. Plenty of red flags. She flakes. Doesn't respond to getting together. Yet I keep pursuing, thinking, trying, hoping, I will bang her.

Please advise on how I can detect the "NEXT signs" or what it is I am doing wrong. I want to get in the right mindset going further.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jurry

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You already know, you're just not pulling the trigger ;)
 

Lotus Effect

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No worries mate! Your question is easily answered!

You don't need to worry about nexting this kind of girl.

She has already nexted you. She is just having a hard time teeling you this mate! (Oh! The irony)

Cheers! :up:
 

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She has no interest and you care too much. You have failed and it's a lost course.

Mostly because she NEXTed you already, you just haven't gotten the notice in the mail. Just start nexting at red flags and only give ONE strike.

1. Women who are interested in you won't confuse you or throw out mixed signals.

2. Actions speak louder than words.

3. Always spin plates.

To name a few of my notes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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