"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have a hard time nexting women...

jackhamma

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I doing pretty well for myself when I am out at bars.
I am also getting a good amount of meet ups off Tinder and getting the occasional lay.

My problem is I have a hard time nexting a woman. I get puzzy blind and I want to fix this problem.

I know she is no good. Plenty of red flags. She flakes. Doesn't respond to getting together. Yet I keep pursuing, thinking, trying, hoping, I will bang her.

Please advise on how I can detect the "NEXT signs" or what it is I am doing wrong. I want to get in the right mindset going further.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jurry

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You already know, you're just not pulling the trigger ;)
 

Lotus Effect

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No worries mate! Your question is easily answered!

You don't need to worry about nexting this kind of girl.

She has already nexted you. She is just having a hard time teeling you this mate! (Oh! The irony)

Cheers! :up:
 

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She has no interest and you care too much. You have failed and it's a lost course.

Mostly because she NEXTed you already, you just haven't gotten the notice in the mail. Just start nexting at red flags and only give ONE strike.

1. Women who are interested in you won't confuse you or throw out mixed signals.

2. Actions speak louder than words.

3. Always spin plates.

To name a few of my notes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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