"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have a hard time nexting women...

jackhamma

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I doing pretty well for myself when I am out at bars.
I am also getting a good amount of meet ups off Tinder and getting the occasional lay.

My problem is I have a hard time nexting a woman. I get puzzy blind and I want to fix this problem.

I know she is no good. Plenty of red flags. She flakes. Doesn't respond to getting together. Yet I keep pursuing, thinking, trying, hoping, I will bang her.

Please advise on how I can detect the "NEXT signs" or what it is I am doing wrong. I want to get in the right mindset going further.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jurry

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You already know, you're just not pulling the trigger ;)
 

Lotus Effect

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No worries mate! Your question is easily answered!

You don't need to worry about nexting this kind of girl.

She has already nexted you. She is just having a hard time teeling you this mate! (Oh! The irony)

Cheers! :up:
 

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She has no interest and you care too much. You have failed and it's a lost course.

Mostly because she NEXTed you already, you just haven't gotten the notice in the mail. Just start nexting at red flags and only give ONE strike.

1. Women who are interested in you won't confuse you or throw out mixed signals.

2. Actions speak louder than words.

3. Always spin plates.

To name a few of my notes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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