"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a gf, yet girl at the gym strives for my attention

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Alright, me and my gf have been getting closer, been with her for 4 months now. However, recently we've been going to our local gym and there is a girl in there that gets a damn awful ammount of attention from dudes. She is gorgeous, but she is stuck up about herself, she is posing/checking herself out in the mirror all the time. I check her out too, but I've been trying to just ignore her for the sake of my relationship. Our gym is very big, and always crowded, yet this girl is striving to get my attention. She's always passing by focused on me, When she's leaving, right before she walks through the door she turns back and looks at me. every one of theese times im with my gf. I've walked by her a few times before and kept ec, and she fleeted her eyes downwards, which i know is a sign of submissivness.

My gf hates her, and I think its cause she knows that the girl is really trying to get my attention. You see, Im in a dillema, because if i was single i would've approached this girl long ago. Any dudes ever been in the same predicament?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Alright, me and my gf have been getting closer, been with her for 4 months now. However, recently we've been going to our local gym and there is a girl in there that gets a damn awful ammount of attention from dudes. She is gorgeous, but she is stuck up about herself, she is posing/checking herself out in the mirror all the time. I check her out too, but I've been trying to just ignore her for the sake of my relationship. Our gym is very big, and always crowded, yet this girl is striving to get my attention. She's always passing by focused on me, When she's leaving, right before she walks through the door she turns back and looks at me. every one of theese times im with my gf. I've walked by her a few times before and kept ec, and she fleeted her eyes downwards, which i know is a sign of submissivness.

My gf hates her, and I think its cause she knows that the girl is really trying to get my attention. You see, Im in a dillema, because if i was single i would've approached this girl long ago. Any dudes ever been in the same predicament?
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Dude seriously when I read this I thought I actually wrote it myself.

I went through the same situation and now that we broke up I kinda regret never getting her number. She really liked me...

Dude this really happened to me. We'd workout together and the girl that worked there was always talking to me at the front desk, pissed my girl off.
 
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ya, I feel the same way too. I guess you could say I have a slight crush on this girl at the gym, and she's far hotter than my gf. But my gf has some good qualities. Either way, I wouldnt go behind her back about this for very long if at all.
 
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gimmeyofonenumba said:
You see, Im in a dillema, because if i was single i would've approached this girl long ago.
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Maybe it's the fact that you have a girlfriend that is making her attracted to you in the first place.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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