"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have a gf, yet girl at the gym strives for my attention

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Alright, me and my gf have been getting closer, been with her for 4 months now. However, recently we've been going to our local gym and there is a girl in there that gets a damn awful ammount of attention from dudes. She is gorgeous, but she is stuck up about herself, she is posing/checking herself out in the mirror all the time. I check her out too, but I've been trying to just ignore her for the sake of my relationship. Our gym is very big, and always crowded, yet this girl is striving to get my attention. She's always passing by focused on me, When she's leaving, right before she walks through the door she turns back and looks at me. every one of theese times im with my gf. I've walked by her a few times before and kept ec, and she fleeted her eyes downwards, which i know is a sign of submissivness.

My gf hates her, and I think its cause she knows that the girl is really trying to get my attention. You see, Im in a dillema, because if i was single i would've approached this girl long ago. Any dudes ever been in the same predicament?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Alright, me and my gf have been getting closer, been with her for 4 months now. However, recently we've been going to our local gym and there is a girl in there that gets a damn awful ammount of attention from dudes. She is gorgeous, but she is stuck up about herself, she is posing/checking herself out in the mirror all the time. I check her out too, but I've been trying to just ignore her for the sake of my relationship. Our gym is very big, and always crowded, yet this girl is striving to get my attention. She's always passing by focused on me, When she's leaving, right before she walks through the door she turns back and looks at me. every one of theese times im with my gf. I've walked by her a few times before and kept ec, and she fleeted her eyes downwards, which i know is a sign of submissivness.

My gf hates her, and I think its cause she knows that the girl is really trying to get my attention. You see, Im in a dillema, because if i was single i would've approached this girl long ago. Any dudes ever been in the same predicament?
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Dude seriously when I read this I thought I actually wrote it myself.

I went through the same situation and now that we broke up I kinda regret never getting her number. She really liked me...

Dude this really happened to me. We'd workout together and the girl that worked there was always talking to me at the front desk, pissed my girl off.
 
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ya, I feel the same way too. I guess you could say I have a slight crush on this girl at the gym, and she's far hotter than my gf. But my gf has some good qualities. Either way, I wouldnt go behind her back about this for very long if at all.
 
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gimmeyofonenumba said:
You see, Im in a dillema, because if i was single i would've approached this girl long ago.
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Maybe it's the fact that you have a girlfriend that is making her attracted to you in the first place.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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