"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i have a gf but...

jeffthechef

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Thanks to this site..i got a girl in the same day i met her...problem is we both recognize we're still only in the attraction stage..we're not in love..and honestly it seems as though we both don't care...i hardly think about her too..when i do think about a girl..it's usually other girls that i find more attractive...

it's only been three days..but by now..or even the first day..i usually feel really happy or excited or some emotion..but i haven't
what should i do?

wait and see, break it off, my friend suggested i merely go out with her until some other girl comes along..

Thanks:woo: :rock: ...just thought these were interesting haha sort of like how i dance:D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SinJester

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How old are you dude?

So you don't even really like her? What was going on between you 2 before you started 'going out'? If you still don't really feel anything after awhile then end it if you want. You don't have to be 'in love' to go out with someone, just as long as it's fun. Do what YOU WANT not what we tell you to or your mates.
 

Five To One

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Sounds like an old relationship of mine. It was real chilled and open. Basicly fbuddies except we called eachother boyfriend and girlfriend. Just dont pass up another girl because of this weak relationship.
 

moneybanks24

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Question: do u have any animosity towards her or is it just indifference?
 

jeffthechef

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definitely indifference..i just dont feel anything that i should be feeling..i think it's only because we never really developed a relationship..but i don't think i could..i wouldn't say this is shallow, but physical attraction is necessary..and i'm not really feelin it..i dont even know if she does..

and fivetoone...i won't pass up another girl if she's better..i'm sure

i don't think this is gonna be a long term thing..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smack

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jeffthechef said:
Thanks to this site..i got a girl in the same day i met her...problem is we both recognize we're still only in the attraction stage..we're not in love..and honestly it seems as though we both don't care...i hardly think about her too..when i do think about a girl..it's usually other girls that i find more attractive...

it's only been three days..but by now..or even the first day..i usually feel really happy or excited or some emotion..but i haven't
what should i do?

wait and see, break it off, my friend suggested i merely go out with her until some other girl comes along..

Thanks:woo: :rock: ...just thought these were interesting haha sort of like how i dance:D
Take it as it is. If it's sex then it's just sex. At least if you're not in love then there should be no drama.
 
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