“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jeffthechef

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Thanks to this site..i got a girl in the same day i met her...problem is we both recognize we're still only in the attraction stage..we're not in love..and honestly it seems as though we both don't care...i hardly think about her too..when i do think about a girl..it's usually other girls that i find more attractive...

it's only been three days..but by now..or even the first day..i usually feel really happy or excited or some emotion..but i haven't
what should i do?

wait and see, break it off, my friend suggested i merely go out with her until some other girl comes along..

Thanks:woo: :rock: ...just thought these were interesting haha sort of like how i dance:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SinJester

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How old are you dude?

So you don't even really like her? What was going on between you 2 before you started 'going out'? If you still don't really feel anything after awhile then end it if you want. You don't have to be 'in love' to go out with someone, just as long as it's fun. Do what YOU WANT not what we tell you to or your mates.
 

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Sounds like an old relationship of mine. It was real chilled and open. Basicly fbuddies except we called eachother boyfriend and girlfriend. Just dont pass up another girl because of this weak relationship.
 

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Question: do u have any animosity towards her or is it just indifference?
 

jeffthechef

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definitely indifference..i just dont feel anything that i should be feeling..i think it's only because we never really developed a relationship..but i don't think i could..i wouldn't say this is shallow, but physical attraction is necessary..and i'm not really feelin it..i dont even know if she does..

and fivetoone...i won't pass up another girl if she's better..i'm sure

i don't think this is gonna be a long term thing..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jeffthechef said:
Thanks to this site..i got a girl in the same day i met her...problem is we both recognize we're still only in the attraction stage..we're not in love..and honestly it seems as though we both don't care...i hardly think about her too..when i do think about a girl..it's usually other girls that i find more attractive...

it's only been three days..but by now..or even the first day..i usually feel really happy or excited or some emotion..but i haven't
what should i do?

wait and see, break it off, my friend suggested i merely go out with her until some other girl comes along..

Thanks:woo: :rock: ...just thought these were interesting haha sort of like how i dance:D
Take it as it is. If it's sex then it's just sex. At least if you're not in love then there should be no drama.
 
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