"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i have a gf but...

jeffthechef

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Thanks to this site..i got a girl in the same day i met her...problem is we both recognize we're still only in the attraction stage..we're not in love..and honestly it seems as though we both don't care...i hardly think about her too..when i do think about a girl..it's usually other girls that i find more attractive...

it's only been three days..but by now..or even the first day..i usually feel really happy or excited or some emotion..but i haven't
what should i do?

wait and see, break it off, my friend suggested i merely go out with her until some other girl comes along..

Thanks:woo: :rock: ...just thought these were interesting haha sort of like how i dance:D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SinJester

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How old are you dude?

So you don't even really like her? What was going on between you 2 before you started 'going out'? If you still don't really feel anything after awhile then end it if you want. You don't have to be 'in love' to go out with someone, just as long as it's fun. Do what YOU WANT not what we tell you to or your mates.
 

Five To One

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Sounds like an old relationship of mine. It was real chilled and open. Basicly fbuddies except we called eachother boyfriend and girlfriend. Just dont pass up another girl because of this weak relationship.
 

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Question: do u have any animosity towards her or is it just indifference?
 

jeffthechef

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definitely indifference..i just dont feel anything that i should be feeling..i think it's only because we never really developed a relationship..but i don't think i could..i wouldn't say this is shallow, but physical attraction is necessary..and i'm not really feelin it..i dont even know if she does..

and fivetoone...i won't pass up another girl if she's better..i'm sure

i don't think this is gonna be a long term thing..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Smack

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jeffthechef said:
Thanks to this site..i got a girl in the same day i met her...problem is we both recognize we're still only in the attraction stage..we're not in love..and honestly it seems as though we both don't care...i hardly think about her too..when i do think about a girl..it's usually other girls that i find more attractive...

it's only been three days..but by now..or even the first day..i usually feel really happy or excited or some emotion..but i haven't
what should i do?

wait and see, break it off, my friend suggested i merely go out with her until some other girl comes along..

Thanks:woo: :rock: ...just thought these were interesting haha sort of like how i dance:D
Take it as it is. If it's sex then it's just sex. At least if you're not in love then there should be no drama.
 
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