"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i have a gf but...

jeffthechef

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Thanks to this site..i got a girl in the same day i met her...problem is we both recognize we're still only in the attraction stage..we're not in love..and honestly it seems as though we both don't care...i hardly think about her too..when i do think about a girl..it's usually other girls that i find more attractive...

it's only been three days..but by now..or even the first day..i usually feel really happy or excited or some emotion..but i haven't
what should i do?

wait and see, break it off, my friend suggested i merely go out with her until some other girl comes along..

Thanks:woo: :rock: ...just thought these were interesting haha sort of like how i dance:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SinJester

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How old are you dude?

So you don't even really like her? What was going on between you 2 before you started 'going out'? If you still don't really feel anything after awhile then end it if you want. You don't have to be 'in love' to go out with someone, just as long as it's fun. Do what YOU WANT not what we tell you to or your mates.
 

Five To One

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Sounds like an old relationship of mine. It was real chilled and open. Basicly fbuddies except we called eachother boyfriend and girlfriend. Just dont pass up another girl because of this weak relationship.
 

moneybanks24

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Question: do u have any animosity towards her or is it just indifference?
 

jeffthechef

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definitely indifference..i just dont feel anything that i should be feeling..i think it's only because we never really developed a relationship..but i don't think i could..i wouldn't say this is shallow, but physical attraction is necessary..and i'm not really feelin it..i dont even know if she does..

and fivetoone...i won't pass up another girl if she's better..i'm sure

i don't think this is gonna be a long term thing..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Smack

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jeffthechef said:
Thanks to this site..i got a girl in the same day i met her...problem is we both recognize we're still only in the attraction stage..we're not in love..and honestly it seems as though we both don't care...i hardly think about her too..when i do think about a girl..it's usually other girls that i find more attractive...

it's only been three days..but by now..or even the first day..i usually feel really happy or excited or some emotion..but i haven't
what should i do?

wait and see, break it off, my friend suggested i merely go out with her until some other girl comes along..

Thanks:woo: :rock: ...just thought these were interesting haha sort of like how i dance:D
Take it as it is. If it's sex then it's just sex. At least if you're not in love then there should be no drama.
 
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