"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have a boyfriend.

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Well, you don't see me talking about my girlfriend.

Problem solved.

Edit: kudos to those who assume I'm suddenly gay from reading the thread title :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You should never hear that word - even if she has one.
 
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bigneil said:
You should never hear that word - even if she has one.
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I generally agree, but some girls are just waiting to be dragged away from them, I say take such steps based on her interest level, if she disses you straight out then it's definitely a no-go.
I've got the "I have a boyfriend line" From several girls before, some of them were bored of their pathetic boyfriends (Wouldn't give them good sex, believe it or not!) and won't switch out for you unless they can put the blame on something else. Doesn't matter to me though.
 
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You must be young because a seasoned guy will be able to read and distinguish her sub communication cues while dispeling resistance to further initiate reciprocation...but im not getting into that for now. However, I want to stay on point by saying for ONE, why do you want some ***** that already has a collar? You want to lick from the same bowl for some ego trip go for it. TWO, why do you think a girl who will hop on your ass with a boyfriend makes you think you have some mighty game? Boy, you are a pigeon. Go after girls who are single because all you are doing is teaching girls you are a plausible deniable side dish to her at home main course (or is that secured course) And for all you know the guy she is with is fed up with her ****.

If you must...and she is hot... Flick her and dump her next to tomorrow's news, because you know she will either be searching classifieds for a new guy, or going to piss on someone else's paper. Stay fresh man.
 
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You must be young because a seasoned guy will be able to read and distinguish her sub communication cues while dispeling resistance to further initiate reciprocation...but im not getting into that for now. However, I want to stay on point by saying for ONE, why do you want some ***** that already has a collar? You want to lick from the same bowl for some ego trip go for it. TWO, why do you think a girl who will hop on your ass with a boyfriend makes you think you have some mighty game? Boy, you are a pigeon. Go after girls who are single because all you are doing is teaching girls you are a plausible deniable side dish to her at home main course (or is that secured course) And for all you know the guy she is with is fed up with her ****.

If you must...and she is hot... Flick her and dump her next to tomorrow's news, because you know she will either be searching classifieds for a new guy, or going to piss on someone else's paper. Stay fresh man.
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Dude, calm, I have multiple plates, these girls are just side-dishes for me as well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fair.

For another wonderer here then :)

The boyfriend scenario might be their cup of tea.
 
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