"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I have a boyfriend.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I generally agree, but some girls are just waiting to be dragged away from them, I say take such steps based on her interest level, if she disses you straight out then it's definitely a no-go.bigneil said:
I've got the "I have a boyfriend line" From several girls before, some of them were bored of their pathetic boyfriends (Wouldn't give them good sex, believe it or not!) and won't switch out for you unless they can put the blame on something else. Doesn't matter to me though.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
If you must...and she is hot... Flick her and dump her next to tomorrow's news, because you know she will either be searching classifieds for a new guy, or going to piss on someone else's paper. Stay fresh man.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
For another wonderer here then
The boyfriend scenario might be their cup of tea.