TheManlyMan
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What are some things YOU say to break past this BS?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"I have a boyfriend"
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I wouldn't bother trying to break this bullsh!t, if this happens I just walk away and approach another hot babe, I don't need this type of rubbish in my life so I don't put up with it, if hot babes want to play games like this then they can do it with some desperate AFC guy, but if they want me to fvck them then they have to play by my rules.
her: "i have a boyfriend"
you: "just one?"
theres no way to get past the boyfriend remark, just make sure to ask her for her number after she tells u she has a boyfriend . You never know, maybe she's about to do the guy in.
you: "just one?"
theres no way to get past the boyfriend remark, just make sure to ask her for her number after she tells u she has a boyfriend . You never know, maybe she's about to do the guy in.
Tha Realnezz
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"So,I just wanna talk to you".
"you're not married though.Keep your options open"..
"and..I don't care"..
"Stop lying"..
If she started flirting with me..:
"Then why are you hitting on me?"..
:rock:
"you're not married though.Keep your options open"..
"and..I don't care"..
"Stop lying"..
If she started flirting with me..:
"Then why are you hitting on me?"..
:rock:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How about:
Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Well, your boyfriend is a lucky man. Anyways, blah blah blah
You're a SOCIAL person. You talk to EVERYONE and a little thing like her having a boyfriend doesn't phase you in the least.
The key is not to get hung up on it. If you you can reply back with something IMMEDIATELY and be TOTALLY unphased by her remark and can STILL hold a conversation with her, you are in essence planting a SEED with her.
Forget about getting her number--she probably won't give it to you anyway. Just plant the seed, and walk away after conversing normally with her for a little while.
Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Well, your boyfriend is a lucky man. Anyways, blah blah blah
You're a SOCIAL person. You talk to EVERYONE and a little thing like her having a boyfriend doesn't phase you in the least.
The key is not to get hung up on it. If you you can reply back with something IMMEDIATELY and be TOTALLY unphased by her remark and can STILL hold a conversation with her, you are in essence planting a SEED with her.
Forget about getting her number--she probably won't give it to you anyway. Just plant the seed, and walk away after conversing normally with her for a little while.
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Master Don Juan
HER: Im sorry, but I have a boyfriend.
YOU: Oh really?! I have one too!
....sorry guys, just couldnt miss the opportunity to troll this one.
YOU: Oh really?! I have one too!
....sorry guys, just couldnt miss the opportunity to troll this one.
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Though it'd be difficult to pull off without looking like a jerk and it'd probably only work on HB9/10s:
"I have a boyfriend"
"Listen, I understand it must be difficult for some people to find partners and I'm glad you've done so, but you don't have tell me"
That does sound too risky in fact.
"I have a boyfriend"
"Listen, I understand it must be difficult for some people to find partners and I'm glad you've done so, but you don't have tell me"
That does sound too risky in fact.
2_intense2
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the "I have a bf" line usually means: she has a BF, or she isn't interested in you..
but if you want to try your luck, you could say:
" an hour with me, and I could change that"
" yea, well I don't see him around..so..."
but if you want to try your luck, you could say:
" an hour with me, and I could change that"
" yea, well I don't see him around..so..."
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Listen to this Girl guys, she's givin you gold.2_intense2 said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
God I hate you people.
Lol, well, it's just there's this forum called the Archive, with all the best threads, and the first thing you see when you go to there . . . stickied at the top . .
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=24
Lol, well, it's just there's this forum called the Archive, with all the best threads, and the first thing you see when you go to there . . . stickied at the top . .
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=24
Bingo! While I dig a lot of these other comebacks, this is the best to use. It's funny that girls always assume they're being hit on, so when they say "I have a bf" you're like "....?? And he's a lucky guy. Do you want a medal? So anyway..." because you're just bein social and having a convo with her. Tell her not to flatter herself lol.Vypros said: