Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"I have a boyfriend"

TheManlyMan

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What are some things YOU say to break past this BS?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KoalaKing

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I wouldn't bother trying to break this bullsh!t, if this happens I just walk away and approach another hot babe, I don't need this type of rubbish in my life so I don't put up with it, if hot babes want to play games like this then they can do it with some desperate AFC guy, but if they want me to fvck them then they have to play by my rules.
 

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her: "i have a boyfriend"
you: "just one?"

theres no way to get past the boyfriend remark, just make sure to ask her for her number after she tells u she has a boyfriend . You never know, maybe she's about to do the guy in.
 

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"So,I just wanna talk to you".
"you're not married though.Keep your options open"..
"and..I don't care"..
"Stop lying"..

If she started flirting with me..:

"Then why are you hitting on me?"..

:rock:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vypros

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How about:

Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Well, your boyfriend is a lucky man. Anyways, blah blah blah

You're a SOCIAL person. You talk to EVERYONE and a little thing like her having a boyfriend doesn't phase you in the least.

The key is not to get hung up on it. If you you can reply back with something IMMEDIATELY and be TOTALLY unphased by her remark and can STILL hold a conversation with her, you are in essence planting a SEED with her.

Forget about getting her number--she probably won't give it to you anyway. Just plant the seed, and walk away after conversing normally with her for a little while.
 

Rebound Material

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HER: Im sorry, but I have a boyfriend.
YOU: Oh really?! I have one too!;)


....sorry guys, just couldnt miss the opportunity to troll this one.
 

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Though it'd be difficult to pull off without looking like a jerk and it'd probably only work on HB9/10s:
"I have a boyfriend"
"Listen, I understand it must be difficult for some people to find partners and I'm glad you've done so, but you don't have tell me"

That does sound too risky in fact.
 

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the "I have a bf" line usually means: she has a BF, or she isn't interested in you..

but if you want to try your luck, you could say:
" an hour with me, and I could change that"
" yea, well I don't see him around..so..."
 

Play the Game

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2_intense2 said:
the "I have a bf" line usually means: she has a BF, or she isn't interested in you..

but if you want to try your luck, you could say:
" an hour with me, and I could change that"
" yea, well I don't see him around..so..."
Listen to this Girl guys, she's givin you gold.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phyzzle

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God I hate you people.

Lol, well, it's just there's this forum called the Archive, with all the best threads, and the first thing you see when you go to there . . . stickied at the top . .

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=24

If she mentions her BF, she's not interested, PERIOD.

"Seeing someone" isn't as strong. It implies there is/are someone she's casually dating but isn't really INTO. In this case I continue the push.

Her: "Well, I'm kinda seeing someone..."
Me: "Yeah, well so am I. What's your number?"

BGMan
 

Jon55

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Vypros said:
How about:

Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Well, your boyfriend is a lucky man. Anyways, blah blah blah

You're a SOCIAL person. You talk to EVERYONE and a little thing like her having a boyfriend doesn't phase you in the least.

The key is not to get hung up on it. If you you can reply back with something IMMEDIATELY and be TOTALLY unphased by her remark and can STILL hold a conversation with her, you are in essence planting a SEED with her.

Forget about getting her number--she probably won't give it to you anyway. Just plant the seed, and walk away after conversing normally with her for a little while.
Bingo! While I dig a lot of these other comebacks, this is the best to use. It's funny that girls always assume they're being hit on, so when they say "I have a bf" you're like "....?? And he's a lucky guy. Do you want a medal? So anyway..." because you're just bein social and having a convo with her. Tell her not to flatter herself lol.
 
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