TheManlyMan
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What are some things YOU say to break past this BS?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"I have a boyfriend"
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I wouldn't bother trying to break this bullsh!t, if this happens I just walk away and approach another hot babe, I don't need this type of rubbish in my life so I don't put up with it, if hot babes want to play games like this then they can do it with some desperate AFC guy, but if they want me to fvck them then they have to play by my rules.
her: "i have a boyfriend"
you: "just one?"
theres no way to get past the boyfriend remark, just make sure to ask her for her number after she tells u she has a boyfriend . You never know, maybe she's about to do the guy in.
you: "just one?"
theres no way to get past the boyfriend remark, just make sure to ask her for her number after she tells u she has a boyfriend . You never know, maybe she's about to do the guy in.
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"So,I just wanna talk to you".
"you're not married though.Keep your options open"..
"and..I don't care"..
"Stop lying"..
If she started flirting with me..:
"Then why are you hitting on me?"..
:rock:
"you're not married though.Keep your options open"..
"and..I don't care"..
"Stop lying"..
If she started flirting with me..:
"Then why are you hitting on me?"..
:rock:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How about:
Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Well, your boyfriend is a lucky man. Anyways, blah blah blah
You're a SOCIAL person. You talk to EVERYONE and a little thing like her having a boyfriend doesn't phase you in the least.
The key is not to get hung up on it. If you you can reply back with something IMMEDIATELY and be TOTALLY unphased by her remark and can STILL hold a conversation with her, you are in essence planting a SEED with her.
Forget about getting her number--she probably won't give it to you anyway. Just plant the seed, and walk away after conversing normally with her for a little while.
Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Well, your boyfriend is a lucky man. Anyways, blah blah blah
You're a SOCIAL person. You talk to EVERYONE and a little thing like her having a boyfriend doesn't phase you in the least.
The key is not to get hung up on it. If you you can reply back with something IMMEDIATELY and be TOTALLY unphased by her remark and can STILL hold a conversation with her, you are in essence planting a SEED with her.
Forget about getting her number--she probably won't give it to you anyway. Just plant the seed, and walk away after conversing normally with her for a little while.
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Master Don Juan
HER: Im sorry, but I have a boyfriend.
YOU: Oh really?! I have one too!
....sorry guys, just couldnt miss the opportunity to troll this one.
YOU: Oh really?! I have one too!
....sorry guys, just couldnt miss the opportunity to troll this one.
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Though it'd be difficult to pull off without looking like a jerk and it'd probably only work on HB9/10s:
"I have a boyfriend"
"Listen, I understand it must be difficult for some people to find partners and I'm glad you've done so, but you don't have tell me"
That does sound too risky in fact.
"I have a boyfriend"
"Listen, I understand it must be difficult for some people to find partners and I'm glad you've done so, but you don't have tell me"
That does sound too risky in fact.
2_intense2
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the "I have a bf" line usually means: she has a BF, or she isn't interested in you..
but if you want to try your luck, you could say:
" an hour with me, and I could change that"
" yea, well I don't see him around..so..."
but if you want to try your luck, you could say:
" an hour with me, and I could change that"
" yea, well I don't see him around..so..."
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Listen to this Girl guys, she's givin you gold.2_intense2 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
God I hate you people.
Lol, well, it's just there's this forum called the Archive, with all the best threads, and the first thing you see when you go to there . . . stickied at the top . .
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=24
Lol, well, it's just there's this forum called the Archive, with all the best threads, and the first thing you see when you go to there . . . stickied at the top . .
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=24
Bingo! While I dig a lot of these other comebacks, this is the best to use. It's funny that girls always assume they're being hit on, so when they say "I have a bf" you're like "....?? And he's a lucky guy. Do you want a medal? So anyway..." because you're just bein social and having a convo with her. Tell her not to flatter herself lol.Vypros said: