"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have a bad smile

Rint

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I dunno wat to do about my smile ppl say smile works miricles yea but not 4 me my smile sux it's terrible wat do i do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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originaldj

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Buddy get some confidence nobody's smile sucks as long as it's genuine. One of your problems can be that you are rating your smile while smiling into a mirror in which case the smile is forced and is not the true genuine smile that you show to other people.
 

Rint

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God dam ur good i have been practicing smiles with a mirror thanx man
 

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i get made fun of sometimes cause i have a goofyass laugh. and i don't think my smile is all that great, i feel like when i smile infront of a mirror its a fake smile, not liek ym real one.

but you know? i don't fvcking care. i don't need to change who I am for others approval. fvck em.
 

DJ_Trainee_10

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A smile is something you can practice... but why fixate over it?

It is a bit wierd, so I think.

Ask exactly what is 'wrong', I use that loosely, with your smile.

If its too little of a smile, smile a bigger smile.
If its too big of a smile, smile a smaller smile.

A smile should come natural. Thats pretty much all you can do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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superman2k6

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Rint, can I ask, have you even read the bible?

you make the most AFC threads man, about how your hair looks and crap like that

honestly, you're missing the whole point of the bible. look to yourself for answers to your small insecurities and trust your own answer, don't look to others for affirmation
 

ethnomethodologist

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Rint, remember that post you made? The one that had the hgorrible writing? The one that says you are your greatest critic, whatever? Maybe?

Well DON'T ****ING LIE!!! Don't give me some stupid bull**** about being your own worst enemy, and than don't follow your own thinking, it's disgusting how people do that kind of ****.

You feel bad for yourself, boo fricking hoo. Should I grab you by the hand and take you to the washroom and have you brush your teeth while I watch THREE times a day? Should I take you to your dentists and hold your hand while the scary man cleans your dirty mouth?

Sorry, don't ****ing complain, people like me will hear you.
 

MrS

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I have this dirty laugh sometimes, loud and like HYA HYAHYAHYAHYAHYA, no worries bro, it's how you see thigns.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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