"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have a bad smile
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Patrick124
Master Don Juan
but you know? i don't fvcking care. i don't need to change who I am for others approval. fvck em.
DJ_Trainee_10
Don Juan
It is a bit wierd, so I think.
Ask exactly what is 'wrong', I use that loosely, with your smile.
If its too little of a smile, smile a bigger smile.
If its too big of a smile, smile a smaller smile.
A smile should come natural. Thats pretty much all you can do.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
<-------- practice that...superman2k6
Don Juan
you make the most AFC threads man, about how your hair looks and crap like that
honestly, you're missing the whole point of the bible. look to yourself for answers to your small insecurities and trust your own answer, don't look to others for affirmation
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Well DON'T ****ING LIE!!! Don't give me some stupid bull**** about being your own worst enemy, and than don't follow your own thinking, it's disgusting how people do that kind of ****.
You feel bad for yourself, boo fricking hoo. Should I grab you by the hand and take you to the washroom and have you brush your teeth while I watch THREE times a day? Should I take you to your dentists and hold your hand while the scary man cleans your dirty mouth?
Sorry, don't ****ing complain, people like me will hear you.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.