Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No, it has nothing to do with that. I live in a very small town, out in the middle of nowhere. The population here is 1100 people and it is a 3 hour drive to the nearest city. I have parents that are quite negative towards me, last year my mom told me "No one could ever love you because you are to fat." Women didn't even like me when I was thin so what chance do I have?Accension said:Would it have anything to do with the fact that you're a 25 year old that likes anime and spends most his time on the internet.
At best you are a smoker wining about cancer.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
In other words you want pitty from the internet yet your high post count tells me you've been here long enough to benefit from any life changing advice, only you don't take it?SharinganUser said:No, it has nothing to do with that. I live in a very small town, out in the middle of nowhere. The population here is 1100 people and it is a 3 hour drive to the nearest city. I have parents that are quite negative towards me, last year my mom told me "No one could ever love you because you are to fat." Women didn't even like me when I was thin so what chance do I have?
I am leaving Canada in the fall to take an English teaching job in Asia. Until then, my chances of having sex or dating are around roughly zero.
Your problem is your attitude. You need to fix that before you can even think about dating.SharinganUser said:I have a feeling that I am going to be one of those old guys that buys prostitutes. (Or do you rent them??) I'm 25 and never really had a gf. No prospects in the near future and even if their were I have lost all my inner game and I look like ****.
lol.. most men end up there eventually hahahah.. thats life just make sure you can afford it..SharinganUser said:I have a feeling that I am going to be one of those old guys that buys prostitutes. (Or do you rent them??) I'm 25 and never really had a gf. No prospects in the near future and even if their were I have lost all my inner game and I look like ****.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Just, every time I see a guy AFCing out even in the worst times.SharinganUser said:Accension I've had my ups and downs. I've just fallen a lot this past year.
DonGorgon What else can I say? I've met a lot of older guys who actually date prostitutes.
You fall because you don´t follow the advices you get. Stop making excuses and crying like a b!tch!SharinganUser said:Accension I've had my ups and downs. I've just fallen a lot this past year.