"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I hate to admit it, but money matters.

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Listen guys I have a few friends that say money will get you all the hot chicks. I always said screw you money don't mean sh1t. Boy I just realized tonight how wrong I was.

Let me explain my night and how it went. Ok my friends friend has season tickets to milwaukee bucks games, brewers games, greenbay packers game. His father is a very successful businessman.


Tonight I had a chance to attend the game with him and 2 of my friends. Ok let me tell you what money does for you. This guy has season tickets midcourt 15 rows up. Before the game, we drive to a place that looks like a hotel but has a very nice bar downstairs. Everything is free, he just gives them a 4 digit number and it is all free. From there they take us to the game in a small shuttle bus.

We go to the game have a great time. After the game the small shuttle bus is waiting for us and takes us back to bar. We drink for free using a 4 digit number. They cater to us.

MONEY TO ME IS NOT IMPORTANT. IT DOESN"T BUY HAPPINESS BUT IT IS A TOOL TO HAVE FUN.


Now guys imagine u being the guy I stated above. Just imagine how much fun a girl will have with you. Imagine being able to take a girl to all these games, and having people cater to you. I know people are going to say well I don't want a girl that would be interested in me because of my money. EVERY GIRL WANTS TO HAVE FUN. And money allows you to show her a good time. It increases your value to her.


B]IMAGINE BEING THE SON OF PRESIDENT BUSH. YOU ARE CATERED TO EVERYWHERE YOU GO. YOU CAN TAKE A GIRL OUT TO VEGAS WITH YOU AT THE DROP OF A DIME ON A PRIVATE JET. I THINK IT IS PRETTY SAFE TO SAY THAT YOU INCREASED YOUR CHANCE OF A FUK CLOSE BY 1000%.[/B]
TO ME AND ALL THE OTHER GUYS THAT SAY MONEY DOESN'T MATTER BOY WERE WE WRONG.


Lets discuss
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mate, I'm living proof it doesn't...please stop trolling.

Cheers
 

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I once knew a guy that was really rich, but a complete afc. After half a year of marriage his wife cheated on him with a poorer alpha male. That´s when I figured out all women are wh0res...
 

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L777 said:
Mate, I'm living proof it doesn't...please stop trolling.

Cheers

No mate I think your wrong, I think it does matter. To me trolling is when invading someone elses thread. If I invaded your thread and called you a troll then that is what I call trolling. PARTNER. Look at my history, I have never invaded someones thread and put it down like this.


By the way guys I am not stating that you can't have sex with beautiful woman if your poor. I am just saying money does matter.
 

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ChrizZ said:
I once knew a guy that was really rich, but a complete afc. After half a year of marriage his wife cheated on him with a poorer alpha male. That´s when I figured out all women are wh0res...

Being rich doesn't make you immune from being an AFC. Money can buy you pvssy, but it can't buy you respect. Big difference.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mr_elor said:
Not really. I'd rather just sit around with someone who has an ace personality, than go out and do things with someone boring.

All you should need is a fun, decent personality.

Thanks for giving us a womans perspective.
 

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lookyoung said:
Listen guys I have a few friends that say money will get you all the hot chicks. I always said screw you money don't mean sh1t. Boy I just realized tonight how wrong I was.

Let me explain my night and how it went. Ok my friends friend has season tickets to milwaukee bucks games, brewers games, greenbay packers game. His father is a very successful businessman.


Tonight I had a chance to attend the game with him and 2 of my friends. Ok let me tell you what money does for you. This guy has season tickets midcourt 15 rows up. Before the game, we drive to a place that looks like a hotel but has a very nice bar downstairs. Everything is free, he just gives them a 4 digit number and it is all free. From there they take us to the game in a small shuttle bus.

We go to the game have a great time. After the game the small shuttle bus is waiting for us and takes us back to bar. We drink for free using a 4 digit number. They cater to us.

MONEY TO ME IS NOT IMPORTANT. IT DOESN"T BUY HAPPINESS BUT IT IS A TOOL TO HAVE FUN.


Now guys imagine u being the guy I stated above. Just imagine how much fun a girl will have with you. Imagine being able to take a girl to all these games, and having people cater to you. I know people are going to say well I don't want a girl that would be interested in me because of my money. EVERY GIRL WANTS TO HAVE FUN. And money allows you to show her a good time. It increases your value to her.


B]IMAGINE BEING THE SON OF PRESIDENT BUSH. YOU ARE CATERED TO EVERYWHERE YOU GO. YOU CAN TAKE A GIRL OUT TO VEGAS WITH YOU AT THE DROP OF A DIME ON A PRIVATE JET. I THINK IT IS PRETTY SAFE TO SAY THAT YOU INCREASED YOUR CHANCE OF A FUK CLOSE BY 1000%.[/B]
TO ME AND ALL THE OTHER GUYS THAT SAY MONEY DOESN'T MATTER BOY WERE WE WRONG.


Lets discuss
Money is a tool, like you said.

Mystery talks about the 3 vital areas of life.

Love, Wealth and Health. Each area has an impact on others. If you are neglecting one area, you will notice negative impacts in the other areas. All areas are linked.

That being said, a lot of things can matter, not just money.

But, it matters less than you are putting it, not by "1000%"
 

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i agree with lookyoung, u should make sure that the girl isnt in it for your money, but you have to show her that u r able to use it to provide for her and have fun with her, otherwise you will lose the sexual tension in the relationship.
Thats y i am getting a job even though i am in college.
 

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Lust said:
Money is a tool, like you said.

Mystery talks about the 3 vital areas of life.

Love, Wealth and Health. Each area has an impact on others. If you are neglecting one area, you will notice negative impacts in the other areas. All areas are linked.

That being said, a lot of things can matter, not just money.

But, it matters less than you are putting it, not by "1000%"

Wow I never knew that mystery said this. I agree with you saying that alot of things matter, not just money. Money is just one component. But it could be a difference maker in many situations with girls.


Well taking a girl for a date on a private jet for a night in vegas may not help 1000%, but it will help. LOL
 

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Zerotwoonenine said:
i agree with lookyoung, u should make sure that the girl isnt in it for your money, but you have to show her that u r able to use it to provide for her and have fun with her, otherwise you will lose the sexual tension in the relationship.
Thats y i am getting a job even though i am in college.

LIKE I SAID MONEY IS A TOOL TO HAVE FUN, NOTHING ELSE.


But us humans by nature like to have fun, therefore increasing your success with woman. I am not saying it is everything, but will help your chance with woman greatly.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zerotwoonenine said:
i agree with lookyoung, u should make sure that the girl isnt in it for your money, but you have to show her that u r able to use it to provide for her and have fun with her, otherwise you will lose the sexual tension in the relationship.
Thats y i am getting a job even though i am in college.

LIKE I SAID MONEY IS A TOOL TO HAVE FUN, NOTHING ELSE.


But us humans by nature like to have fun, therefore increasing your success with woman. I am not saying it is everything, but will help your chances with woman.
 

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mr_elor said:
Okay, you carry on trying to buy a woman's affection, I'll carry on using my personality alone, something which has worked well for me.
I never said that I would try to buy a womans affection. I just stated that money matters. I always believed that money didn't matter. I would actually argue with my friends about this. But after tonight and putting things in perspective I realized I was wrong.

Of course I would rather get a girl with personality, than with money..
 

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I actually have a lot of money, but I DON'T let the chick know that bro, once they find out u got alot of money, thats all they are after.
 

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Yeah, perspective is different if you have a little, I agree. Everyone wants what they don't have. I wanted a lot of things when I was younger and broke, but now that I could actually buy some of those things, they don't seem worth it.

And as was alluded to above, the women who want you because you have money are the wrong women.
 

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lookyoung said:
No mate I think your wrong, I think it does matter. To me trolling is when invading someone elses thread. If I invaded your thread and called you a troll then that is what I call trolling. PARTNER. Look at my history, I have never invaded someones thread and put it down like this.


By the way guys I am not stating that you can't have sex with beautiful woman if your poor. I am just saying money does matter.
THINK being the operative word. I KNOW FOR A FACT ot doesn't. If so every university student in the country would be a virgin, and I can guarantee you that the vast majority aren't.

OK, so you can attract a couple of extra gold-diggers, but who wants that? Game, looks, a nice body and value are what matters...not money, most rich guys aren't players anyway, I know of a few local millionaire businessmen who have been married since their early 20's.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The money itself is unimportant.

Check out this video for Madonna's "Material Girl." The guy who gets her in the end is the one who differentiates himself from the crowd of guys trying to woo her.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAuzbzNtwDI

Also notice the difference between the message of the lyrics and the message of the video. What she actually responds to in the video is not what she says she wants!

The guy who gets her has money, but he intentionally offers her a simple date, which she responds to favorably. Why? Because its different than what all the other guys with money have offered her. Also he is giving her the chance to get to know him without showering her with lavish gifts, which she gets all the time and in no way impresses her.

Ultimately, the other guys have no confidence in who they are as men. If they did, they would know that they could show her a good time without having to spend a lot of money.
 

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I'm gonna have to agree with Lookyoung on this one guys.

Now... I've been fortunate enough to have a constant supply of p*ssy in my life since the age of 18. At that age, I was just a bum student with very little money, crap car, lived with my folks, etc...

7 years later, I am doing relatively well and earn a hell of a lot more than I did back then. I am however still getting the same amount of pune...

Here is there difference though...

When you dress well, drive a fancy car, own a smoking apartment, high paid, powerful job... LAYING WOMEN BECOMES ALOT EASIER!

I mean I'm not saying personality is not important, but lets face it, any woman of any value will not settle for an unemployed bum.

So lets not kid our selves here, successful guys with good personalities get laid a lot more than the not so successful ones with good personalities.

Just a way of life...

Ever since time began, women have been attracted to men who can provide for her and her offspring.
 

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Report is not a taddle button, stop using it as such.
 

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Fash said:
I'm gonna have to agree with Lookyoung on this one guys.

Now... I've been fortunate enough to have a constant supply of p*ssy in my life since the age of 18. At that age, I was just a bum student with very little money, crap car, lived with my folks, etc...

7 years later, I am doing relatively well and earn a hell of a lot more than I did back then. I am however still getting the same amount of pune...

Here is there difference though...

When you dress well, drive a fancy car, own a smoking apartment, high paid, powerful job... LAYING WOMEN BECOMES ALOT EASIER!

I mean I'm not saying personality is not important, but lets face it, any woman of any value will not settle for an unemployed bum.

So lets not kid our selves here, successful guys with good personalities get laid a lot more than the not so successful ones with good personalities.

Just a way of life...

Ever since time began, women have been attracted to men who can provide for her and her offspring.
Yea, maybe getting a "girlfriend" is easier, but not sex. I know quite a few naturals, and some aren't students, they're grown men who make average cash but get a lot of sex. Think Charlie Stubbs-type characters (from Coronation Street). Money is just something for insecure men to hide behing, I used to think I'd never be happy unless I was rich, but now I'd rather do something I love and just get by than be some ridiculous, pretentious poser who spends 50 grand and more on things like cars and watches, and this is coming from someone who is on course to become a barrister.
 

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Fash said:
When you dress well, drive a fancy car, own a smoking apartment, high paid, powerful job... LAYING WOMEN BECOMES ALOT EASIER...
Could it be because they like your stuff more than they like you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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