"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I hate it when you think you found "her".

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This really happens to me alot and I hate it.

I find a nice girl, she's got all the things I could want, cute, smart, funny, sweet, etc.

Just when you think you are in the good books, bang! It's over. Goodbye miss perfect. (like there really IS a miss perfect anyway, heh.)

Example: Just a few minutes ago, I was chatting to a girl who was all of the above. She lived close. Sounds perfect ya know?

We was chatting and all, I gave her my picture, she said I was hot. I asked for hers, she was sending it... then halfway, she went offline and it seems I am blocked on her list (MSN Messenger). This also happens in general. When I meet a girl in person, we go out, have fun, feels like I'm about to fall for her when she starts to just completely ignore me or some bullsh|t like that happens.

Fuk, I sometimes hate girls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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okay, now i know she blocked me.

and i don't think it's an old man, she had her picture up on display. and i also saw her profile on a website. it's POSSIBLE it was a guy, but highly doub it.

i used my other account on msn and pretended i was a friend asking why she blocked him.

she asked who my friend was, i told her... then boom... she blocked me. again. dude, what is the deal with some girls? one minute they fuking say you're hot and all, then they fuk you off. fuking b|tches.
 

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The devil himself can not understand women. So stop wasting your time on figuring out why some girl rejected you, and find a new girl to reject you :D
 

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yeah, i am over it now, she can fuk herself and get raped by a gang of aboriginals.

i just get pissed off because i meet alot of girls, just when we're hitting it off, they dissapear.
 

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Originally posted by Tails
yeah, i am over it now, she can fuk herself and get raped by a gang of aboriginals.
There's the aussie sprit. :rolleyes:

Originally posted by Tails
i just get pissed off because i meet alot of girls, just when we're hitting it off, they dissapear.
Now this girl you're talking about, you didn't just meet her on msn did you? C'mon, who give a fukk, she's just some online "chick".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah, msn. just that i read her profile on a website, she seemed like a nice gal. HOE well.

i think might be starting to distant myself from girls.. sick of making so much effort to get them on a date or whatever. now everytime i talk to a girl, all i see is the devil in them and it scares me.
 

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Don't get caught up with her "rejection" because that's the road to insanity. Believe me, dwelling on it will annihilate your confidence!

And never think of any girl as "the one" or "her".
 

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Stop looking for girls online. Never trust people online. Never treat the net like it's real life.
 

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Originally posted by Tails
This really happens to me alot and I hate it.

I find a nice girl, she's got all the things I could want, cute, smart, funny, sweet, etc.

Just when you think you are in the good books, bang! It's over. Goodbye miss perfect. (like there really IS a miss perfect anyway, heh.)

Example: Just a few minutes ago, I was chatting to a girl who was all of the above. She lived close. Sounds perfect ya know?

We was chatting and all, I gave her my picture, she said I was hot. I asked for hers, she was sending it... then halfway, she went offline and it seems I am blocked on her list (MSN Messenger). This also happens in general. When I meet a girl in person, we go out, have fun, feels like I'm about to fall for her when she starts to just completely ignore me or some bullsh|t like that happens.

Fuk, I sometimes hate girls.
You fell for a girl you've never met?

Uhh....

BTW, as far as falling for girls and them starting to ignore you...maybe there's a pattern here. I noticed one with myself. :)
 

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that was just an example of what usually happens. i didn't say i fell for her. i don't fall for girls i don't know or have never met, that's impossible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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